
News: PrEP Is Popular But Mainly Among White Gay/Bi Men + More
Some news items you might have missed: • NBC News: PrEP has become popular in the US with PrEP has become popular in the US with MSM (men who have sex with men) but mainly among those who are white. Compared to 207,397 white people recorded as using the medication in 2022, only 42,374 Black and 54,674 Latino people were taking PrEP. Continue reading “News: PrEP Is Popular But Mainly Among White Gay/Bi Men + More”
Podcast: Tennessee Bans Drag, “Schmicago,” + New Music For Your Playlist
In this week’s episode of The Randy Report podcast: Tennessee lawmakers have approved a bill that will ban drag performances in public or in front of children, and RuPaul has something to say about it. Plus… Continue reading “Podcast: Tennessee Bans Drag, “Schmicago,” + New Music For Your Playlist”
Study: Children Of Same-Sex Parents Fare As Well Or Better Than Those Of Heterosexual Couples

Pete Buttigieg & Chasten Buttigieg Become Parents
Welcome baby Buttigieg! Secretary of Transportation Pete Buttigieg and his husband Chasten Buttigieg announced today they have become parents. Continue reading “Pete Buttigieg & Chasten Buttigieg Become Parents”
Top 10 Off-Kilter Things Said To Gay Dads

Top 10 things actual people have said to me and my husband this year, as new gay dads: a thread 🤣😬🤬
— Robin Morgan-Bentley (@rmorganbentley) January 11, 2021
1. Oh it’s lads’ day out today! So cute. Is mummy having the day off?
— Robin Morgan-Bentley (@rmorganbentley) January 11, 2021
2. Which of you is the real dad?
— Robin Morgan-Bentley (@rmorganbentley) January 11, 2021
3. Is the mum still involved? It must be so hard for her
— Robin Morgan-Bentley (@rmorganbentley) January 11, 2021
4. Do you reckon he’ll also be gay when he grows up?
— Robin Morgan-Bentley (@rmorganbentley) January 11, 2021
5. Aren’t you worried that he’s missing out by not being breast-fed?
— Robin Morgan-Bentley (@rmorganbentley) January 11, 2021
6. What if his first word is ‘mummy’?
— Robin Morgan-Bentley (@rmorganbentley) January 11, 2021
7. It’s a shame he was born in 2020, isn’t it?
— Robin Morgan-Bentley (@rmorganbentley) January 11, 2021
8. Oh he’s going to miss out on so much! Think of all the facial expressions he’s missing under these masks
— Robin Morgan-Bentley (@rmorganbentley) January 11, 2021
9. Do you want me to help settle him?
— Robin Morgan-Bentley (@rmorganbentley) January 11, 2021
10. I can be his mummy if you want.
— Robin Morgan-Bentley (@rmorganbentley) January 11, 2021
Our son’s thoughts on all the above can be summarised with this expression pic.twitter.com/MYJ2gLq8Bi
— Robin Morgan-Bentley (@rmorganbentley) January 11, 2021
Those people are so rude and so daft! Congratulations on your baby, he’s an absolute dote and you’re the best parents ever I’m sure 💕
— Meaghan but Grinchier (@WLWomenFruits) January 11, 2021
gawd, what is wrong with people.
— katie (@katiemoffat) January 11, 2021
I'm surprised one of you wasn't asked which one had given birth! 😉🏳️🌈🤣
— Norman Goldner (@nlygo) January 11, 2021
SCOTUS Turns Away Attempt To Undermine LGBTQ Parents’ Rights

The U.S. Supreme Court has declined to hear a case that could have undercut marriage rights for same-sex couples.
Even with a 6-3 conservative majority on the high court, SCOTUS refused to roll back same-sex marriage rights.
The case, Box v. Henderson, was brought by parents Ruby and Ashlee Henderson in 2015 as a challenge to Indiana’s birth records law. The couple sued when county officials refused to list both on the birth certificate of their son, who was conceived via artificial insemination.
The state of Indiana regularly lists the male spouse on birth certificates in opposite-sex marriages that conceive via anonymous sperm donors even though the husband has no biological link to the child.
But in the case of the Hendersons, Indiana Attorney General Curtis Hill argued “whenever a birth-mother’s wife gains presumptive ‘parentage’ status, a biological father’s rights and obligations to the child have necessarily been undermined without proper adjudication.”
In his brief to the Supreme Court, Hill wrote that it’s just “common sense” that while “the husband of a birth mother is usually the biological father, the wife of a birth mother is never the biological father.”
But in its 2015 Obergefell v. Hodges ruling, which made marriage equality the law of the land, the high court was specific that same-sex couples are entitled to the same “constellation of benefits” of marriage that opposite-sex married couples are afforded. And that includes birth certificates for their children.

The Hendersons argued in their original suit that a number of legal issues could arise regarding who could enroll their son in school, ensure he was covered by health insurance, or even speak on the child’s behalf during a medical appointment. Without the legal status conferred by a birth certificate, one of the women would need to formally adopt their son which could cost up to $5,000 in legal fees.
The couple won in federal court in 2016 but Indiana appealed to the 7th Circuit Court of Appeals which upheld the lower court’s ruling ten months ago. In its unanimous decision, the 7th Circuit cited due process and equal protection clauses of the 14th Amendment.
In other words, just because someone’s a wife, not a husband, doesn’t mean you can deny them marriage rights.
In 2017, the Supreme Court had ruled on the issue of same-sex parents and birth certificates in Pavan v. Smith, in which SCOTUS found in favor of a same-sex couple who had also conceived through assisted reproduction.
Since that time, SCOTUS refused to hear a similar case in 2018 from Arizona where a lesbian couple sued for legal recognition of the birth mother’s wife as a parent after using an anonymous sperm donor to conceive.
With the Supreme Court’s refusal to review the case today, the lower court rulings will stand.
Another bullet dodged. Whew. LGBTQ rights are simple human rights. And the children of same-sex couples especially deserve equal dignity and decent treatment. Indiana should be ashamed of itself. https://t.co/05vb7l9pp9
— Laurence Tribe (@tribelaw) December 14, 2020
In “victory” for LGBTQ families, US Supreme Court declines to take up Indiana case seeking to reverse a lower court’s ruling that allows both members of same-sex couples in the state to be listed as parents on the birth certificates of their children. https://t.co/peulZwxUAJ
— NBC Politics (@NBCPolitics) December 14, 2020
The Supreme Court denied cert Monday in a case that threatened to chip away at marriage equality. The Court’s denial will disallow Indiana’s effort to discriminate against same-sex couples, and will continue to preserve the meaning of Obergefell v. Hodges. https://t.co/H2TdczYmrk
— (@Const_Overhaul) December 14, 2020
Karen Celestino-Horseman, the attorney for the Hendersons, told The Indianapolis Star they were “delighted” about the Supreme Court’s decision.
“It’s a major victory that is going to keep the same-sex families together, and the children born to these marriages will have two parents to love and protect them,” added Celestino-Horseman.
Cathy Sakimura, Deputy Director and Family Law Director for the National Center for Lesbian Rights (NCLR), said in a statement today, “The Supreme Court rightly denied this case because it has already clearly decided that same-sex spouses and different-sex spouses must be treated equally.”
Solicitor General Tom Fisher, speaking for the Indiana Attorney General’s office, issued a lame “We are disappointed the Court declined to take up the case.”
Indiana AG To SCOTUS: 2 Gay Parents Shouldn’t Be On Child’s Birth Certificate

Indiana’s attorney general sent a brief to the Supreme Court arguing that it should reverse a lower court’s ruling that allowed both members of same-sex couples in Indiana to be listed as parents on their children's birth certificates.https://t.co/DpcpQiU8eF
— NBC Out (@NBCOUT) November 30, 2020

“A birth mother’s wife will never be the biological father of the child, meaning that, whenever a birth-mother’s wife gains presumptive ‘parentage’ status, a biological father’s rights and obligations to the child have necessarily been undermined without proper adjudication,” Hill wrote in his brief.
The Supreme Court is scheduled to hold a conference regarding the case on December 11. It will be the first dealing with same-sex marriage rights since Justice Amy Coney Barrett was confirmed to the high court. Hill last made national headlines in May when he had his law license suspended for a month after being accused of groping a state lawmaker and three other women in a bar in 2018. Gov. Eric Holcomb (R) and other state GOP leaders called for Hill’s resignation at the time.
News Round-Up: August 21, 2020

Now these MAGA dolts are pointing guns at their dicks with the safeties off and their fingers on the trigger to own the libs. I fucking hate it here. pic.twitter.com/O1vVUldLn5
— Dylan (@dyllyp) May 25, 2020
Anderson Cooper tears into the MyPillow guy for pushing unproven coronavirus therapeutic as a “miracle” cure:
“You have no medical background. You are not a scientist… You are now on the board and going to make money… How are you different than a snake oil salesman?” pic.twitter.com/6cQIn1FYpA — Justin Baragona (@justinbaragona) August 18, 2020
Two Gay Dads Are Both American, But Daughter Is Denied Citizenship
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Two gay men are married.
They are both U.S. citizens.
They have a child born from the sperm of one of the men using a donor egg.
They are the only parents listed on the child’s birth certificate.
But when they return home from Britain, where the child was born, to the U.S. and apply for the child’s American passport, they are denied.
A State Department policy, under the Trump administration, allows children to be treated as born “out of wedlock” if the egg and sperm don’t match married parents regarding transmitting citizenship.
“Out of wedlock” means a higher threshold comes into play for citizenship to transmit to the child.
One of the men, James Derek Mize, was born and raised in the United States.
The other, Jonathan Gregg, was born in the UK to an American mother making him a U.S. citizen as well.
The two married in 2015 and in 2017 Gregg moved to Atlanta, Georgia, to be with his husband.
In 2018, their daughter Simone was born via surrogate in London using a British friend’s donor egg and Gregg’s sperm.
But since the egg donor is not listed as a parent, under the “out of wedlock” clause, the Trump administration says Gregg – as the genetic father – needed to be a resident of the U.S. for five years.
He was not.
The couple is suing the State Department, with the help of Lambda Legal and Immigration Equality, for discrimination and violating their constitutional rights.
State officials say the policy is not discriminatory because it could apply to opposite-sex couples as well as same-sex couples.
Earlier this year, I reported for Instinct on a ruling by U.S. District Judge John F. Walter in a similar case of a married gay couple which said there is no federal law that requires a child’s biological parents to be married to transmit citizenship.
Mr. Mize and Mr. Gregg point out that when they went to the U.S. embassy to obtain a passport for Simone, they watched as some 20 opposite-sex couples presented the same documents as they had and were given passports for their children.
They note that none of the opposite-sex couples were questioned concerning how their children were conceived or to their biological relations.
Since Simone was born in London, the U.S. currently views her as a British citizen, and the only way her parents could bring her back home to the U.S. was through a tourist visa. But the visa expires soon, leaving Simone with no legal status to remain in Atlanta with her parents.
Mize recently told HuffPost that when the embassy applied a different standard to his marriage and child, “Every anxiety I’ve ever had in my life about being gay and different came into my body and I just wanted to cry.”