Colton Haynes Announces Engagement To BF Jeff Leatham

Colton Haynes and fiance Jeff Leatham

Now this is how to pop the question 🙂

Former Teen Wolf/Arrow star Colton Haynes had an eventful weekend as he announced he and bf Jeff Leatham got engaged.

Haynes posted a pic on his Instagram featuring the couple kissing in front of a fireworks display with the caption, “I SAID YES!!!”

Haynes confirmed the rumors of his romance with Leatham last month. Leatham is a celebrity floral designer whose clients include Kris Jenner and Sofia Vergara.

Apparently Cher, who’s known Laatham for years, had a part in the moment. Haynes attributes an “I Got You Babe” lead-in to the big proposal.

“It’s not every day that someone comes into your life & makes you want to be a better man,” Haynes shared with a picture of the two snuggling in bed on Instagram. “I feel so blessed to be by your side @jeffleatham. #WhatMoviesAreMadeOf.”

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Colton Haynes honored with HRC’s “Visibility Award”

Hit play below to listen in as I run down several of the week’s top LGBT news stories including:

• Terrorist threats in Florida’s gay mecca Wilton Manors

• A Las Vegas man threatened to kill gays and lesbians for Jesus

• The star of Logo’s new “Finding Prince Charming” is catching heat for his past as a male escort

• TV stars Conrad Ricamora (“How To Get Away With Murder”) and Colton Haynes (“Arrow”) were both honored with the Human Rights Campaign’s “Visibilty Awards”

• America’s Got Talent alum Jonathan Allen releases his new single, “Amen”

Arrow/Teen Wolf Star Colton Haynes To Be Honored With HRC’s “Visibility Award”

Colton Haynes

The Human Rights Campaign announced today that Colton Haynes (Teen Wolf, Arrow) will be honored for his work on behalf of LGBTs with the organization’s Visibility Award this year’s Annual Gala event in Seattle tomorrow night.

Via press release:

“Colton Haynes has inspired countless LGBTQ young people across the country and around the world to live their lives as their authentic selves,” said HRC President Chad Griffin. “By simply being open about who he is, Haynes is helping to break down barriers and tear down closet doors. We are pleased he will be joining us at the 17th Annual HRC Seattle Gala, and we are proud to honor him with the HRC Visibility Award.”

Haynes, who recently came out publicly as gay in an interview with Entertainment Weekly, said, “I’m happier than I’ve ever been, and healthier than I’ve ever been, and that’s what I care about.”

Haynes also recently participated in a video released by HRC paying tribute to the 49 victims of the Orlando shooting at Pulse nightclub. The 18-minute tribute — directed by Emmy Award-winning Ryan Murphy and Ned Martel, with the support of their colleagues at Ryan Murphy Television — features a diverse cast of 49 actors, directors and other entertainment leaders recounting individual stories of the people killed in our nation’s deadliest mass shooting.

In addition to Teen Wolf and Arrow, Haynes has been featured on Fox’s The Grinder and ABC’s The Gates.

Colton Haynes Covers OUT Magazine

Teen Wolf and Arrow star Colton Haynes opens up on several intimately personal topics in a new interview with OUT Magazine plus a new Bruce Weber inspired photo shoot.

Why he took so long to publicly come out:

“I feel really bad that I had to lie for so long. But I was told that was the only way I was going to be successful. When you’re young in this industry, people take advantage of you, and they literally tell you that your dreams are going to come true. If you believe that, you’ll do anything. And you do believe it, especially if you’re from Kansas.”

On his dad’s passing:

“I’m the last person in the world who would say, ‘Oh, my dad—pity me,’” says Haynes, whose father, seven times married, split from Dana and was never close with him. “But I was told that my dad killed himself because he found out I was gay. So, of course, I lost it and was like, ‘How could you say something like that?’ And no one will ever really know the truth. But my brother and my mom went to pick up my dad’s stuff, and the only picture on his fridge was my eighth-grade graduation picture. So I was just like, Fuck.”

Regrets over trying to scrub the internet of his now infamous XY Magazine photo shoot:

“All I remember is, I was so excited to do that photo shoot. ‘This is it! I’m going to be in a magazine!’ I truly thought it was going to be this serious moment in my career, and I knew it would earn me enough money to get to L.A.”

What Haynes didn’t expect was that the XY photo shoot would follow him (“It was everywhere,” he says) and eventually become the most unimpeachable evidence against a closeted celebrity in recent memory. Around the time he landed his breakthrough role on Teen Wolf in 2011, Haynes was taking the heat for efforts by his team to wipe the XY shots from the Internet.

“I looked like I was fucking gay-bashing,” he says. “Like I hated myself or I hated the gays, which was never the intention at all. I was just young and trying to make it in this town and doing what these people were telling me to do.”

The article also covers the launch of Haynes’ new merchandise site and the last time he had sex (or not).

Head over to OUT for the full article.

Colton Haynes Launches Online Store, Sells Out In Hours

Love everything Colton Haynes? Want more? We got the store!

Colton Haynes excitedly shared the news that he’s launched a new online store (located at, appropriately coltonhaynes.com) for selling “super limited edition stuff” like iPhone cases, t-shirts, hats, posters and more.

The handsome Haynes shared with his Twitter followers he used the “Daddy” label as that’s what fans call him online; and the “Anxious” label referring to his ongoing issuing with chronic anxiety.

Sales were apparently brisk as after two hours the site had crashed due to traffic, and the merch was almost sold out.

Here’s Colton’s announcement vid today:

Colton Haynes Responds To “The Real O’Neals” Noah Galvin’s Criticism On Coming Out

Noah Galvin

Yesterday, I posted about an interview The Real O’Neals star Noah Galvin gave to Vulture wherein he was surprisingly negative about other gay men in the entertainment industry in LA, including Colton Haynes, who’s recent coming out in an EW interview he called “pussy bullshit.”

“That’s not coming out,” Galvin said. “That’s fucking pussy bullshit. That’s like, ’Enough people assume that I sleep with men, so I’m just going to slightly confirm the fact that I’ve sucked a dick or two.’ That’s not doing anything for the little gays but giving them more masturbation material.”

Colton Haynes

Last night, Colton responded to Galvin asking “since when did he become the judge of what’s appropriate?”

Galvin has since issued this apology to Haynes:

“To Colton Haynes and to the LGBTQ youth, especially those who have embraced our show, I have no right to dictate how or when anybody comes out of the closet; I know how difficult and scary the process of coming out can be, and the last thing I would ever want to do is make it scarier.”

“The Real O’Neals” Star Noah Galvin Has Some Strong Opinions

The Real O’Neals openly gay star Noah Galvin raised lots of eyebrows with some brash statements in an interview with Vulture.

About Arrow star Colton Haynes:

“That’s not coming out. That’s fucking pussy bullshit. That’s like, enough people assume that I sleep with men, so I’m just going to slightly confirm the fact that I’ve sucked a dick or two. That’s not doing anything for the little gays but giving them more masturbation material.”

About X-Men director Bryan Singer:

“Bryan Singer likes to invite little boys over to his pool and diddle them in the f—ing dark of night,” he said, laughing. “I want nothing to do with that. I think there are enough boys in L.A. that are questionably homosexual who are willing to do things with the right person who can get them in the door. In New York there is a healthy gay community, and that doesn’t exist in L.A.”

About Eric Stonestreet of Modern Family on the same network as his own show:

“I think as wonderful of an actor as Eric Stonestreet is — I’ve never met him, I assume he’s a wonderful guy — he’s playing a caricature of a caricature of a stereotype of stereotype on Modern Family. And he’s a straight man in real life. And as hilarious as that character is, there’s a lack of authenticity. I think people — especially young gay kids — they can laugh at it, and they can see it as a source of comedy, but like, nothing more than that. And I want Kenny to be more than the funny gay kid.”

UPDATE: Someone got a phone call or two from ABC execs and more.

Galvin just released this statement retracting his attacks on Bryan Singer, Colton Haynes and Eric Stonestreet:

“I sincerely apologize to Bryan Singer for the horrible statement I made about him in the interview I gave to New York Magazine,” read the statement. “My comments were false and unwarranted. It was irresponsible and stupid of me to make those allegations against Bryan, and I deeply regret doing so. I have never been to Bryan’s house, and I admit there is no basis for any of the things I said or implied about Bryan in that interview. I understand now that my statements were not at all funny and have serious implications. I am very sorry and I hope that Bryan and everyone else who read that interview can forgive me for my serious lapse in judgment. I have contacted New York Magazine and the other publications that republished my statements and asked them all to print this retraction and apology.”

“The entire interview I gave to Vulture has hurt the LGBTQ community and the industry I feel truly fortunate to be a part of,” the statement goes on. “My only intention was to try and empower and promote honesty, but I fully understand that comments I made were brazen and hurtful. To Colton Haynes and to the LGBTQ youth, especially those who have embraced our show, I have no right to dictate how or when anybody comes out of the closet; I know how difficult and scary the process of coming out can be, and the last thing I would ever want to do is make it scarier. For anyone. Lastly, as I said in the interview, I think Eric Stonestreet is a wonderful actor. I apologize to everyone that I’ve hurt with my comments and understand the damage that has been done. I am new to this and will certainly commit to being more thoughtful and wiser as I navigate all of this moving forward.”