News Round-Up: September 1, 2020

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Some news stories you might have missed: • The Advocate: Chasten Buttigieg, the husband of former Mayor Pete Buttigieg, gives a fascinating and personal account of what it was like to be on the campaign trail with the first openly gay presidential candidate of a major party. Chasten releases his memoir, I Have Something To Tell You, today. • New York Times: The Democratic National Party has announced presidential candidate Joe Biden will visit Kenosha, Wisconsin, “as soon as possible,” but wants to defer to local officials, including Governor Tony Evers, who had asked Donald Trump to cancel or delay his visit to allow the city time “to heal.” • BosGuy: Celebrating the release of the 2021 Men in Kilts calendar! Squeeee!!! • Politico: Twitter said Monday it will begin displaying warning labels on shared posts that contain misleading or doctored videos after facing complaints that it failed to do enough to limit the spread of deceptive clips targeting Joe Biden’s campaign. • CNN: Channing Tatum (top photo) is releasing his first children’s book, “The One and Only Sparkella,” dedicated to his 6-year-old daughter, Everly. The actor says he’s spent much of quarantine with his daughter finding his ‘inner child.’ The book is centered around a young girl named Ella, who likes sparkly things and gets teased at school for wearing disco ball shoes. But her father teaches her lessons about expressing herself and loving herself.

InstaHunks Strike A Pose With Their Pups On National Dog Day

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Checking out how our favorite InstaHotties celebrated National Dog Day with their furry family members. First up, Magic Mike star Joe Manganiello (above) made it black and white that Bubbles is his favorite. Instagram daddy/dog duo Steve_in_la and his bestie Tobi_in_LA posed for the moment: https://www.instagram.com/p/CEXbeMyBvxd/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link Max Souza (Mr. Brazil Gay 2020) shared black/white bulldog pup Arya and mama dog Charlotte along with the rest of his puppers: https://www.instagram.com/p/CEXEBj6jiuV/ Boy Butter pitchman Rod Facundo shared a moment with his bull terrier, Rocco: https://www.instagram.com/p/CEXQ83qJhTc/ Out Olympian Gus Kenworthy struck a pose with his doggie daughter Birdie: https://www.instagram.com/p/CEYGq3eA0_M/ YouTube celeb Max Emerson was hanging out with Sargeant Pupper (who has his own 18K followers on Instagram): https://www.instagram.com/p/CEXT3V1F9zd/ English rugby star Chris Robshaw spent the day with five dashing doggies: https://www.instagram.com/p/CEW3ZsvsXt_/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link Photographer Alexis Salgues  shared these pics of personal trainer Ben Cent with his woofy Siberian husky, Wolfgang: https://www.instagram.com/p/CESA6lRKS3F/ Fitness guy Bremen Menelli worked out at the beach with his bestie, Hugo: https://www.instagram.com/tv/CENH1qvA3QC/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link Hunky veterinarian Dr. Evan Antin’s cutie Henry explained how he basically owns everything: https://www.instagram.com/p/CEXnBA_ltq8/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link Ollie the samoyed’s hunky dad took him on a boat ride: https://www.instagram.com/p/CEPWy20nyb9/ Big and beefy fitness coach Dominik Scherl showed off his poofy pom, Rocco: https://www.instagram.com/p/CEXjRZkJlLm/

InstaHunks: Bremen Menelli

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Fitness guy Bremen Menelli tried to do some cardio at the beach but someone else had other ideas:  

Woman Asks How To Handle Her Boo & His Buds Using Gay Sex Jokes All The Time

Rich Juzwiak, the out sex advice guy at Slate, recently advised a straight woman whose guy and his gaming buddies joke about gay sex all the time. In her letter, she says she and all his pals are on a text chain where they end messages with some “fellatio-related quip onto every. damn. sentence.” The woman (who signs the note No Homo) claims the jokes “aren’t hateful, per se, but they’re just constantly referencing gay, male-on-male sex, and to me, there often seems to be no discernible punchline.” The whole herd of heteros is all past 30-years-old and she says their gaming camaraderie is a big part of her social life. She adds that she’s “never seen even a hint of outright bigotry” from her boo and his buds. In fact, her partner is totally cool with her gay bestie and his boyfriend. Her question was: Is this a thing? Do hetero guys really talk like this? AND, (talk about lobbing a softball) does she need to ‘stand up’ to this ‘humor even though it seems to be ‘free from hate?’ Juzwiak is on the case and immediately points to sociologist C.J. Pascoe who calls this behavior “fag discourse.” Pascoe says “fag discourse” is the dynamic of straight (or straight-identifying) guys rib each other using gay jokes or take on so-called feminine attributes as a way of underscoring their masculinity. Pascoe says she found in her studies that the use of the word “fag” and the imitation of gay men are often “explicitly self-evaluated by boys as being not anti-gay.” Put another way, the guys say that even though they know they’re using an anti-gay term, their intent isn’t “anti-gay,” so they aren’t “anti-gay.” Juzwiak calls out the bs saying he believes “the view that one can joke about fags and fag behavior in a manner that is somehow divorced from ‘real’ homophobia is massively shortsighted.” Our man Rich says she should address the language but suggests instead of “scolding” the bunch of bros, she might want to strike up a conversation on the subject “that is more curious than accusatory.” “It seems to me a lot of toxic straight-male behavior is not quite conscious,” he adds. “They often know not what they do, but perhaps an intelligent conversation could help set them on the course to understanding it.” What do you think, readers? Who has friends who engage in “fag discourse?” Have you ever called it out? If so, how did the friends react? (source: Slate)

100th Anniversary Of 19th Amendment Granting Women Right To Vote

From NowThis News:

Today marks 100 years since the ratification of the 19th Amendment to the Constitution, granting women the right to vote.

The culmination of decades of activism from women suffragettes, the amendment was originally passed by Congress on June 4, 1919. Just over a year later, on August 18, 1920, Tennessee became the 36th state to ratify the amendment, securing its adoption.

This footage shows just a handful of the 8 million women who took to the polls a few months later, in November 1920, for a presidential election that saw Republican Warren G. Harding defeat Democrat James Cox.

InstaHunk Round-Up: Weekend Edition

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Checking in to see what some of my favorite InstaHunks are up to this weekend. Randy Kaufman (aka RandyLand) isn’t having today’s beach weather in Provincetown, so he’s throwing back to last weekend (above) from a near-perfect day (and pic) at Herring Cove. Out veteran newsman Thomas Roberts (who’s been sharing #GoodGayNews during the pandemic) announces he’s got a new gig hosting Daily Mail TV starting September 7. #CongratsThomas

 

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‪I’m excited to announce starting September 7, 2020 (Labor Day) I’m the NEW HOST @dailymailtv ! After 25 amazing years in TV News, whether as an Anchor or Correspondent, I’ve had some pretty incredible ‘career firsts.’ But this is the first time I’ve been this excited to START and just get to work! Especially now, with so much to cover from the #CoronavirusPandemic to #presidentialelection2020 As someone who’s always been a fan of DailyMailTV & @dailymail I’m thrilled to join this Emmy Award Winning team. Plus, it’s a reunion with true pros & friends like @alicialquarles & more… I really hope you’ll join us each day – show times here ⬇️ www.DailyMailTV.com‬ #pictureoftheday #instagood #happiness #workfromhome #nyc #dailymailtv

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Hottie Dan Tai is looking for his next adventure:

Jim Newman is wintering in Sao Paulo, Brazil (lucky Brazil):

 

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This is winter in Brazil! 😍😍 #brazil #winter #yesplease #naofrio #muitobom #caleinte #legal #portuguselessons #lol

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Jeff Ferreira is giving you Friday night Times Square realness summer-style:

 

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Deixa eu te levar pra ver o mundo baby 🥰😜🔥

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You’ve got to click over to the videos in this post from Bremen Menelli as he plays with his adorbs pooch at the beach:

 

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🙋🏻‍♂️🐶 ❤️ . . . . . . #doglovers

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Pierre Vuala is giving you all kinds of pumped up lean realness:

 

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The guys at Box Menswear are heading to the beach:

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Get it, we’re going the beach.

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Philip Evelyn II is wondering if he qualifies for ‘beefy-ish’ yet? #HeresTheBeef

Yes, folks will make passes at guys who look like Thara (aka Kaiser.Arms) wearing glasses:

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And PrideOfficial wants to remind you to protect Black men. #BLM

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Protect Black men. ✊🏿 ⠀ 📷 by @bronson.photo featuring @bradgibson13, @gabehyman, @zachdestyn, @dariusawright, @zanderander, @gerald_caesar, and @rodrickcovington. s/o by @austinunes, styling by @oliviaperdoch, hair and makeup by @mikeyclifton. ⠀ Image description: This stunning photo depicts seven Black men standing in a line in a lush green field. They are pictured shirtless and in profile. Each one of them holds the shoulders of the person in front of them. They are all performers, dancers, artists, and/or in theatre. From left to right, they are Gabriel Hyman, Zachary Downer, Darius Wright, Brad Gibson, Alexander Anderson, Gerald Caesar, and Rodrick Covington. They all have roses and babies breath in either their hair or in their pockets. This image, taken by queer Black photographer Bronson Farr, was shot while filming for Brad Gibson's upcoming music video for his song, "Fool." The second image depicts the same men as they stand in a circle, surrounding Brad Gibson, looking up at the sky. Brad is known for his role as SIMBA in the @thelionking on Broadway. ⠀ #pride #lgbt #lgbtq #lgbtqia #queer #blackgaymen #blackandgay #gay #instagay #black #blacklivesmatter #gaysofinstagram #gaymen #menwhodatemen #menwhokissmen #poc #qpoc #queerpeopleofcolor #queermenofcolor #nojusticenopeace #loveislove #lovewins #loveislove🌈 #lovewins🌈 #lgbtq🌈 #pride🌈 #blacklivesmatter✊🏽✊🏾✊🏿 #blacklivesmatter✊🏾 #nojusticenopeace✊🏾

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Dolly Parton On #BLM: ‘Do We Think Our Little White Asses Are The Only Ones That Matter?’

International superstar Dolly Parton (via Instagram)
Sometimes, it’s the divas that lead the way. In a new interview with Billboard, international music superstar Dolly Parton makes her support for the Black Matters Lives movement clear and unequivocal: “I understand people having to make themselves known and felt and seen. And of course Black lives matter. Do we think our little white asses are the only ones that matter? No!” The Billboard article offers a detailed profile of Parton’s extensive business empire and explores some of the secrets to her success. Being flexible in business situations is one skill that’s served her well both financially and in showing the world her authentic self. Years before talk of Confederate flags and statues leaped to the forefront of political discourse, Parton renamed her Dixie Stampede dinner venue Dolly Parton’s Stampede in an effort to be sensitive to the painful history of slavery. “There’s such a thing as innocent ignorance, and so many of us are guilty of that,” Parton tells Billboard. “When they said ‘Dixie’ was an offensive word, I thought, ‘Well, I don’t want to offend anybody. This is a business. We’ll just call it The Stampede.’” “As soon as you realize that [something] is a problem, you should fix it,” shares the 74-year-old wise woman. “Don’t be a dumbass. That’s where my heart is. I would never dream of hurting anybody on purpose.”
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Of course, Parton has a long history of supporting and uplifting her LGBTQ fans. She’s often been quoted as saying, “If I hadn’t have been a girl, I’d have been a drag queen.” In a 2009 interview with Joy Behar, she was asked about her support for same-sex marriage to which replied with a smile, “Why can’t they get married? They should suffer like the rest of us do.” She reiterated that stance in 2014 telling HuffPost, “I think everyone should be with who they love.” “I don’t want to be controversial or stir up a bunch of trouble but people are going to love who they are going to love,” she continued. “I think gay couples should be allowed to marry. They should suffer just like us heterosexuals, hahahaha.”

And last November, promoting her Netflix series Heartstrings (which featured a gay romance episode “Two Doors Down”), she told Logo, “I’ve always been proud of my gay following. I think they care about me because I care about them.” And around that same time, the country diva jumped into the dance music world with her terrific collaboration with Galantis, “Faith,” giving us all something to dance about. Happy Friday, folks! Here’s to celebrating a diva who gives back to all her fans.

Snapshot: First Flight Since Pandemic Began

My hubby Michael had to travel on a business trip yesterday from Nevada to California. My understanding has been that most major airlines require a face mask to board planes. But when Michael got settled, the traveler on the other end of his row was clearly not wearing a mask. And then there’s the personal wine bottle she somehow got on-board…? I hear that was confiscated later.  I reached out to the airline (who I won’t shame here) on Twitter via DM and they responded immediately. At some point in the flight, the woman did don a mask (kinda sorta) but wasn’t wearing it correctly. Just a snapshot of what’s happening out there in the world these days.

Biden Jokes About Running Mate Choice During Bike Ride

Joe Biden out riding his bike near Rehoboth Beach (screen capture)
During a bike ride near Rehoboth Beach, Delaware, former Vice President Joe Biden was asked by Fox News correspondent Pete Doocy if a decision had been made on a running mate. “Yeah, I have,” said Biden as he whizzed by the reporter. “Who is it?” inquired Doocy and Biden shot back a light-hearted, “You.” Silly story but I have to say – can you IMAGINE Donald Trump riding a bike???