
Just Because: You Want To See This Baby Squirrel Drink Water
I’m catching up on a lot of chores around the house and wanted to share this serene Sunday moment. Because you really want to see a man give water to a baby squirrel. The squirrel is so calm and trusting. Take a second and just breathe with this.
Because you want to see a man give water to a baby squirrel. pic.twitter.com/D1TgFYI7DT
— Danny Deraney (@DannyDeraney) March 18, 2021
My Favorite Thing Today: ‘My Turn’

Oh God I can’t even tell this story and not cry. I used to manage an LGBT bookstore, when bookstores were still a thing. One night, a caller says he thinks he might be gay and is considering self-harm. We were not a crisis center! But as long as we’re talking, he’s safe, right?
— Joe (@TweetChizone) March 4, 2019
So I talk to this guy and I answer questions, and I try to be encouraging and I’m maybe sounding a little frantic and I’m definitely ignoring the 4-5 customers in the store, and this angel of a woman puts her hand on my shoulder and asks for the phone. “My turn,” she says.
— Joe (@TweetChizone) March 4, 2019
And SHE, this 50-something lesbian talks to this stranger on the phone. And a LINE FORMS BEHIND HER. Every customer in that store knows that call, knows that feeling, and every person takes a turn talking to that man. That story comforts me so much to this day.
— Joe (@TweetChizone) March 4, 2019
Wow. There are so many good folks out there. Let us not forget that because it keeps you going in times like these.
— Judy Howard, Esq 😷 🇺🇸 (@JudyHallHoward) March 5, 2019
Just found this heartwarming thread. Indeed comforting and brings hope for humanity. 😭❤️
— Henrik Perälä (@henrikperala) March 17, 2021
This fills my heart. ❤️
— Marla Erwin 🏳️🌈 #BanTheGOP (@marlaerwin) March 14, 2021
So I saw this post on BuzzFeed and I screenshotted it & sent it to everyone I know. I cry every time I read this story and it lets me know that this world, it’s going to be ok. There is more good than bad. Thank you a million times over for sharing this story!!
— Hospitalist Prime (@skrishnan37) March 17, 2019
Of all the things the Internet has done for the LGBTQ community, the biggest boon is suicide prevention. Queers can’t say anything online that looks the least bit like they want to hurt themselves without a flock of people showing up to help them through the moment.
— Reconstructionist_Reconnaissance (@RealArtisans) March 7, 2019
Just in case you or anybody else needs this info. Plus, here’s the link to the online chat- https://t.co/1Wqmm6h1VX pic.twitter.com/ZLLpEp2JQR
— Awesomesauce Me (@Awesomesauce_Me) March 5, 2019
Happy Birthday Thommie Walsh

Thommie Walsh was a 2-time Tony Award winner, an original cast member of the ground-breaking A Chorus Line, and my dear wonderful friend. Thommie came into my life in so many ways. As a young actor and dancer, I was forever changed by his performance in A Chorus Line. The boy who grew up near Buffalo but “couldn’t remember the name of the town” – he’d blocked it out. His work on Broadway was the stuff wide-eyed young actors or dancers like me only dreamed about. He danced in several Broadway shows – including A Chorus Line – and then graduated to director/choreographer. As Tommy Tune’s partner, he won two Tony Awards (A Day in Hollywood / A Night in the Ukraine; My One And Only). Thommie’s accomplishments and honors were many, too numerous to mention them all. But my favorite memory of Thommie was as my friend. In 2002, Donna McKechnie was asked to perform her then-developing one-woman show “Inside The Music” in Los Angeles. Thommie was her director and choreographer. The theater was a small theater on a budget, so Donna asked if Thommie could stay with me. Every day was a holiday with Thommie in the house. Having consulted on some of Donna’s earlier shows, I accompanied Thommie to rehearsals and assisted when I could. But just being around Thommie made life better and funnier and more wonderful. We became very fast friends. Thommie was immensely supportive of my work as a director and/or choreographer. Some years later, when I was choreographing a show off-Broadway, he insisted he come to see the show. Then he made a point of taking me to dinner at Joe Allens (famous Broadway restaurant) to talk about it. I’ll never forget the look in his eyes when he sat down, smiled, and simply said to me “you did good – I loved it.” His sense of humor, his directness in any situation, everything about Thommie worked for me. My wonderful, funny, talented friend. In late 2006, however, he stopped returning phone calls. I worried something was wrong. I reached out to everyone I could. At one point, on Christmas eve, I stood outside a holiday dinner in the freezing cold on the phone with a close friend of Thommie’s. The news was not good. I was distraught. I frantically asked the friend to keep me informed as his health deteriorated. News was very slow to come over the next several months. I did all I could to stay in the loop from across the country. Then, on a hot summer night – June 16, 2007 – this boy-wonder of Broadway was gone. I was riding in a car in Las Vegas when a friend called: “Did you hear about Thommie?” I held my breath in silence. I didn’t want to know. Several heartbeats went by. I’m dramatic – surely I’m wrong. Please let me be wrong. I wasn’t. My friend on the other end of the call was sad and silent. But, the news had come. Gone. But never forgotten. I remember Thommie’s birthday every year. March 15th – the Ides of March. From Julius Caesar – “Beware the Ides of March.” Beware indeed. He used his own birthday onstage in A Chorus Line as “Bobby” or “Robert Charles Joseph Henry Mills, III” as his introduction went. Just so dang funny. I would play his role in A Chorus Line several times, and I always thought of Thommie when I did. Near the end of his character’s monologue, he had a line that read, “I just wanted to see if anyone would notice me.” Boy, did the world notice Thommie. I miss Thommie often. His laugh, his humor, his talent, his friendship… all of it boundless. I’d love to regale you with some stories I lived with him, but they may not be suitable for this post. If you knew him, you know what I mean. If you don’t, then please know I hope someday you know someone like him so you will. Except there will never be another Thommie Walsh. Ever. And my eyes tear up with joy and sadness every time I know that. Thommie – how very lucky am I to have known you. I miss you. I always will. Thommie once advised me if you were going to steal, steal from the best. So, as Thommie would close his letters, from me to the fabulous Thommie Walsh: “Love you madly – always.”
InstaHunk Round-Up: Weekend Edition

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Bruno Tarchetti gave you morning coffee eyes:
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Jim Newman decided to just hang around in Brazil:
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Billy Reilich got in some sports ball on the beach:
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Somehow my Chevron station attendant never looks like Arizona bodybuilder Jett Wayne:
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Curtis Fitzgerald, Doctor of Dental Medicine, reminds us the goal of all this is to be our own personal best.
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Brody Knows Star Quality When He Sees It

“When Straight Men Sleep With Men It’s Not A ‘Gay’ Thing, It’s A ‘Guy’ Thing?”

In a recent TikTok post, a sex therapist told viewers straight men can have sex with guys and still be completely straight.
Dr. Joe Kort, whose website says he has a Ph.D. in Clinical Sexology, tells his TikTok followers “when straight men have sex with men, it’s not a gay thing, it’s a guy thing.”
Kort goes on to say that, in general, “men have more transactional sex with one another” while women don’t.
“So, when men have objectified sex where it’s just about the act, it’s just about getting off, people ‘man shame’ him,” adds Kort, who makes a point of noting he’s openly gay.
Underscoring his point, Kort says, “When straight men have sex with men, they’re still straight, it doesn’t erase heterosexuality any more than when gay men have sex with women. They’re still gay. It doesn’t erase their homosexuality.”
https://www.tiktok.com/@drjoekort/video/6931336646684085509?sender_device=pc&sender_web_id=6923718272396248581&is_from_webapp=v1&is_copy_url=0
The TikTok post received over 1,400 comments ranging from calling for Kort’s practice and license to be revoked to others agreeing with the good doctor saying they “completely get” what he’s saying.
Now, a straight guy having some kind of sexual encounter with another male doesn’t necessarily make him “gay.” We have other words – like “bisexual” – that could apply.
Certainly there are men who have sex just to get off and file that under “friction is friction.”
And then there’s the Kinsey scale which describes a person’s sexuality on a range of 0 (being exclusively heterosexual) to 6 (meaning exclusively homosexual). Folks can be a 1 or a 5, capable of “having sex” of some kind without feeling the emotional need for committed relationships with someone of the same or opposite sex.
Kort’s official website for his psychotherapy practice shares that he has “counseled thousands of sexually confused men over the years.”
But Kort’s comment section was filled with calls of “denial” and “nonsense.”
Watch the clip and let us know what you think, readers.

InstaHunk Round-Up: Weekend Edition

Checking in to see how the Hunks of Insta are doing this fine weekend.
First up, Dan Tai (above) was just happy to get to the weekend and was looking forward to some self-time. We know how you feel, Dan…
Olympic diver Tom Daley is doing his dolphin thing at the aquatic center keeping his eye on the upcoming Olympics:
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Actor Luke Evans is considering becoming a doggie daddy:
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Carson Tueller has been killing at the gym and has a message for the fitness industry:
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DJ (and Daddy Wolf) Thiago Oliveira reminds us to hydrate after a workout:
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Bruno Tarchetti threw out a Insta-costume change:
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Ryan Shea: More Than A Name



often usually unfiltered. He was filled with the drive of someone who enjoyed what he did. And along the way, his work, his byline, his name was read by literally millions of people. He had an unerring eye for what popped in pop culture. He thrived as an entertainment journalist, and he LOVED interviewing folks on the red carpet. 


Dolly Parton Gracefully Declines Tennessee Capitol Statue

— Dolly Parton (@DollyParton) February 18, 2021