In full rotation in my house every Christmas season. What I love about Vanessa’s recordings is she reveals, alongside stunning vocals, her rich and artful musicianship. Her brilliant arranger/music director on her holiday albums, Rob Mathes, brings rich and rhythmic gospel flavor to these takes on “Do You Hear What I Hear” and “The Drummer Boy.” If you don’t have Vanessa Williams’ holiday albums, you’re missing out. Love, love, love.
Podcast: AGT’s Branden James Chats On His Memoir ‘Lyrics Of My Life’

Through it all, he was surprised by one startling realization: how vital it is to be completely authentic in order to help others, as well as continue to heal himself. Lyrics of My Life is authentically Branden sparing no details about his lack of stability as a young adult, estrangement from his close-knit family, and, despite it all, his unbreakable will to overcome adversity. Searching for his own personal freedom, Branden finds reconciliation with his family, rediscovers his faith, and realizes that affliction and hardship are not what define us as human beings. The response to Lyrics of My Life has been awesome. Among many to praise the memoir were the readers of POZ who voted the book ‘Best in Literature’ for 2020.
The winner for the 2020 #POZAwards for Best in Literature goes to @BrandenJMusic for #LyricsOfMyLife, published by @cleispress. Congrats on not just winning, but for putting your experiences living with #HIV out there so others don't feel so alone. https://t.co/rDsidfWIzj pic.twitter.com/eY4ffa4wV6
— POZ Magazine (@pozmagazine) December 13, 2020
Podcast: ‘She’s Not Doing So Well’ With Bobby, Jim & The Miz
Who’s looking for a new podcast to follow? Check out co-hosts Bobby Griffith, Jim (just Jim), and The Miz (Anthony Villiotti) every Wednesday for their fun-filled gay podcast, She’s Not Doing So Well, an irreverent yet empathetic look at everyday life through an LGBTQ+ lens. Described by the crew as a ‘recipe for disaster stemming from unexpected encounters,’ She’s Not Doing So Well provides insightful discussions on topics ranging from relationships and sex to gay life and mental health while incorporating edgy humor to leave their listeners begging for more. “We have no rules and love to talk about things we don’t know much about to be able to learn and grow,” reads the show’s official description. “Nothing is off-limits.” The hour-long episodes delve into commentary and experiences that inspire audiences to transition from surviving to thriving in the cultural challenges that we face as humans as well as some wholesome gay comedy. Check out the guys’ latest episode below and you can find the full catalog of 60+ episodes on Apple Podcasts here.
News Round-Up: December 22, 2020

• CNN: Donald Trump has begun issuing presidential pardons and among the recipients are former Reps. Chris Collins and Duncan Hunter. Both are Republicans, and both were the first in Congress to endorse Trump for president. • Philly Inquirer: Looks like we found that ‘voter fraud’ folks have been talking about. A man in Delaware county registered his dead mother and mother-in-law to vote using their IDs, and he then cast a mail-in ballot…..for Donald Trump. The 70-year-old admitted to casting the illegal ballot to “further the campaign of Donald Trump.” • The Herald: A wedding venue in Winston-Salem, North Carolina, – the Warehouse on Ivy – denied a same-sex couple the opportunity to hold their wedding there citing its ‘Christian values.’ North Carolina is one of 27 states with no statewide laws offering protection from discrimination against the LGBTQ community.
N. Carolina wedding venue denies lesbian couple, citing ‘Christian values’
If you are an LGTBQ ally please cancel any events your are planning at Warehouse on Ivy in Winston-Salem, NChttps://t.co/H7RBFEmaQN https://t.co/O1bSyFaqlt — 🎄🎅🏽B L A Z E R🎄❄️☃️FIND JOY⛄️ (@Ellasperson) December 22, 2020
Christmas Music: Tom Goss ‘Christmas 2020’

Friday night Mike went for a walk, I picked up the guitar and wrote a song. It was so fun to me that I immediately got on the phone and roped Ned Douglas into production, Mike Lovins into bass and Liz DeRoche into harmony arrangement. I told them everything had to be done immediately!
The next day I had an awesome song and then roped Michael Briggs into making a video with me. This project has made me smile so much, I hope it makes you smile as well.
Moral of the story… there are so many people around you that love you!!!!! Including me. Merry Christmas, Happy Holidays, Happy New Year, love you lots!
You can find my numerous posts about Tom and his music here.
Trailer: ‘It’s A Sin’ Follows 3 Friends Through 80s AIDS Crisis

Ritchie, Roscoe and Colin are young lads, strangers at first, leaving home at 18 and heading off to London in 1981 with hope and ambition and joy… and walking straight into a plague that most of the world ignores.
Year by year, episode by episode, their lives change, as the mystery of a new virus starts as a rumor, then a threat, then a terror, and then something that binds them together in the fight.
It’s the story of their friends, lovers and families too, especially Jill, the girl who loves them and helps them, and galvanizes them in the battles to come. Together they will endure the horror of the epidemic, the pain of rejection and the prejudices that gay men faced throughout the decade.
Look for the series to debut in 2021.
Christmas Music: Limahl ‘One Wish For Christmas’
Forever-young UK pop star LIMAHL offers his latest for the holidays, the romantic and sublime “One Wish For Christmas.” Continue reading “Christmas Music: Limahl ‘One Wish For Christmas’”
Christmas Music: Billy Porter “O Holy Night”
This clip is from a TV special Rosie O’Donnell hosted December 5, 1999, at Broadway’s Longacre Theater which also included Trisha Yearwood, Celine Dion, ‘NSYNC and Gloria Estefan. Porter’s holiday season is certainly merry and bright as he’s currently shooting season 3 of his hit series Pose, and will be co-hosting Dick Clark’s New Year’s Rockin’ Eve with Ryan Seacrest on December 31. Watch him wail below. Merry merry, folks.
Spoiler Alert: The Winners of The Amazing Race 32 Are…

In the clip, Will breaks down as he shares how his grandmother used to take him to Mardi Gras, James explains why he was surprised by Will’s marriage proposal, and they talk about wanting to adopt children. Hung and Chee arrived at the finish line second, with the McKibbin brothers coming in third. Congrats to James and Will!
744 DAYS YA’LL!!! The best kept secret(s) ever… I love you @williamjardell. You make my wildest dreams come true. We did it. 🌈✨💜 #AmazingRace pic.twitter.com/ZMpoEQkJ0r
— James Wallington (Amazing Race 32) (@JamesWallington) December 17, 2020
Out Music: Tom Goss ‘Irreplaceable’

I know you fear, I know you doubt Your place, our love, tomorrow’s light You are irreplaceable You are irreplaceable
Throughout, Goss trades places with a diverse set of friends and even his husband, Michael, in an exercise underscoring all of our individuality and uniqueness. Lovely.
On the other end of the emotional spectrum, I’d be remiss if I didn’t mention that Tom has announced his 2021 calendar is now available. If the cover is any indication, you can check out Tom every day in the new year (roller skates, 70s shorts and all). 