Mississippi: Teenager pleads guilty to murder of gay black man

From USAToday: Deryl Dedmon, a 19 year-old Mississippi man, has pleaded guilty and received two life sentences for targeting a random black man for abuse and killing him with his pickup truck. It was later learned that the victim was gay and in a 17 year relationship.

Dedmon, 19, of Brandon, Miss., apologized to the family of 49-year-old James Craig Anderson. While partying with six friends last June 26, Dedmon suggested finding a black man to harass. Anderson was beaten before Dedmon ran over him with his Ford pickup. “I do not ask y’all to forget, but I do ask y’all to forgive,” he said before being sentenced for the murder and hate crime that was captured by a hotel security camera. AP writes, “As members of his family and the victim’s relatives wiped away tears, Dedmon said God has taught him not to see race and he is a changed man.”

The New York Times reported on the victim last August.

Mr. Anderson was a good country cook, a gifted gardener and always genial, his family said. He liked his job on the assembly line at the Nissan plant north of Jackson, where he had worked for about seven years. “If you met him, the first thing you were going to see was that grand piano smile,” said his eldest sister, Barbara Anderson Young. He made a point of taking care of old people and children and was helping his partner of 17 years, James Bradfield, raise the 4-year-old relative for whom Mr. Bradfield has legal guardianship. He sang tenor in the choir at the First Hyde Park Missionary Baptist Church and was so good “he’d have you falling out,” Mr. Bradfield, 44, said.

TESTIMONY – Stephen Schwartz, Dan Savage and the San Francisco Gay Men’s Chorus

TESTIMONY – Music by Stephen Schwartz
Lyrics taken from and inspired by the It Gets Better Project
http://bit.ly/Testimonysong

In writing TESTIMONY, Stephen Schwartz collaborated with Dan Savage, creator of the groundbreaking “It Gets Better Project.” Schwartz has set the heartfelt words from the “It Gets Better” videos to music, weaving them into a breathtaking, emotional new masterpiece that speaks to anyone who has ever felt out of place.

The beginning of the piece gives voice to the doubts many LGBT youth feel growing up. But as the piece progresses, the lyrics express the confidence and truth of lives lived openly as we get older and realize “it does get better.”

Artistic Director and Conductor of San Francisco Gay Men’s Chorus, Dr. Tim Seelig says, “In four decades of conducting and commissioning new choral works, ‘Testimony’ is one of the most profound works of choral art I have ever experienced. We can never adequately express our gratitude to Stephen Schwartz for what he has given to us and to the world. If one person is moved and ultimately changed by these words, all of our work will have been worth it.”

Versions will also be available on iTunes audio and video. A limited edition DVD is available for sale at http://www.sfgmc.org and a portion of proceeds will be donated to the It Gets Better Project.

Dharun Ravi speaks about being found guilty and Tyler Clementi’s death

Having been found guilty of a hate crime for spying on Tyler Clementi, Dharun Ravi gave an interview to the NJ Star-Ledger about his thoughts on the trial and Tyler’s death.

Regarding the tweet he sent to friends suggesting they tune into his webcam to see Clementi with a male guest:

“I knew my friends would think it was a joke because they know my sense of humor,” he said. “But eventually I thought it was stupid, so I went back into the room and pointed the camera back at my bed.”

When asked the question, “What were you thinking?” Ravi candidly stated, “I wasn’t.”

“At that point, I got caught up in what I thought was funny, and my own ego. I never really thought about what it would mean to Tyler,” he said. “I know that’s wrong, but that’s the truth.”

Upon learning about the webcam, Tyler Clementi committed suicide.

Ravi stands by his statement that he set up his webcam out of concern for his iPad and that he was also put off by the appearance of Clementi’s guest, a 30-year-old man known only as M.B. that Tyler met on a gay dating Internet site.

“But I wasn’t biased,” Ravi said. “I didn’t act out of hate and I wasn’t uncomfortable with Tyler being gay.”

“I’m very sorry about Tyler,” he said. “I have parents and a little brother, and I can only try to imagine how they feel. But I want the Clementis to know I had no problem with their son. I didn’t hate Tyler and I knew he was okay with me. I wanted to talk to his parents, but I was afraid. I didn’t know what to say.

UPDATE: Preview of “20/20” interview with Dharun Ravi. He doesn’t come off very sympathetic here. Almost as if he’s the victim. May not play well for him in an appeal.

Jersey Shore – Mike “The Situation” walks out of Reunion show

Mike “The Situation” Sorrentino walks off the stage of the Jersey Shore Season 5 Reunion show set to air tonight.

According to NY Daily News, the reality star issued a statement to set the record straight about his recent trip to rehab:

“I have voluntarily taken steps to get control of a prescription medication problem I had due to exhaustion,” he said in the statement. “I have spent the past several weeks getting treatment for this problem and recuperating from my work and appearance schedule. I appreciate my fans support and love you guys.”

Sorrentino went through alcohol detox prior to checking into the Cirque Lodge in Utah, and cited club appearances for the reality show as a primary factor leading to his alcohol abuse.

Matt Zarley talks about new remixes & music video: Trust Me

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Matt Zarley was our guest last night on The Candi & Randy Show talking about his new dance remixes for “Trust Me” plus the upcoming music video for the project.

If you missed the show, hit play above.

You can check out the music on iTunes here.

Looking for the perfect wine to pair with your Girl Scout cookie?

To make Girl Scout cookies truly an adult treat, Kris Margerum, Wine Director at Napa Valley’s inn and Michelin-starred restaurant Auberge du Soleil, has provided wine pairings for each cookie sold by the Girl Scouts.

“Even the simplest sweets can be paired with a fine wine,” said Margerum. “I love pairing confections with exquisite vintages. They shape the flavor and take the simple experience of enjoying a cookie to an entirely new level of enjoyment.”

For instance, Margerum recommends the 2007 Schramsberg Blanc de Noirs Sparkling Wine to accompany Trefoils. The creamy richness of the shortbread is balanced by the fresh lively notes of the Sparkling Wine.

Check out the other pairings on the Huffington Post.

Starbucks CEO speaks to his company’s support for marriage equality

“Any decision of this type or magnitude has be made with great thoughtfulness and I would assure you that a senior team at Starbucks discussed this. To be very candid with you, this was not something that was a difficult decision for us and we did share this with the board as well. [snip] We made that decision, in our view, through the lens of humanity and being the kind of company that embraces diversity.” – Starbucks CEO Howard Shultz, responding to NOM’s complaint about his company’s support for marriage equality.
(Audio from GoodAsYou.org)

Hew Hampshire House votes down attempt to repeal marriage equality

An effort to prevent recognition of same-sex marriages in the “Live Free or Die” state seems to be dead for the year after a Republican-controlled state House of Representatives failed to pass the measure, despite desperate last-minute attempts to make the bill more palatable to moderates by author Rep. David Bates.

The New Hampshire House of Representatives has defeated the bill with a vote of 133-202.

At stake first was the absurd amendment proposed by Rep. David Bates (R), which would have re-implemented civil unions and given voters a chance to weigh in on that decision in a non-binding way. That amendment failed 162-188.

Then, there was a parliamentary debate as to whether to consider a humorous amendment proposed by Rep. Seth Cohn (R) that would have prohibited marriage between people who are left-handed, but the effort to bring it forth was defeated.

During the debate on the bill as originally proposed, Bates and other opponents of equality invoked comparisons between same-sex marriage and incest while protesting when others juxtaposed the measure with the racial segregation of the past.

Three-term governor John Lynch had promised to veto the bill had it passed both majority-Republican chambers of the state legislature.
(source)

AP Analysis: “Drill, baby, drill” won’t drop oil prices

An Associated Press statistical analysis of 36 years of monthly, inflation-adjusted gasoline prices and U.S. domestic oil production contradicts the GOP attack claims that President Obama is responsible for the rise in gas prices.

AP’s analysis showed no statistical correlation between how much oil comes out of U.S. wells and the price at the pump.

Political rhetoric about the blame over gas prices and the power to change them – whether Republican claims now or Democrats’ charges four years ago – is not supported by cold, hard figures. And that’s especially true about oil drilling in the U.S. More oil production in the United States does not mean consistently lower prices at the pump.

Sometimes prices increase as American drilling ramps up. That’s what has happened in the past three years. Since February 2009, U.S. oil production has increased 15 percent when seasonally adjusted. Prices in those three years went from $2.07 per gallon to $3.58. It was a case of drilling more and paying much more.

U.S. oil production is back to the same level it was in March 2003, when gas cost $2.10 per gallon when adjusted for inflation. But that’s not what prices are now.

That’s because oil is a global commodity and U.S. production has only a tiny influence on supply. Factors far beyond the control of a nation or a president dictate the price of gasoline.

Much has been made about President Obama and blaming him for higher gas prices. But, as practically every economist has already said, Presidents have little control over gas/oil prices.

When President Bush and running mate Dick Cheney campaigned in 2000, they argued that as oil executives they could get oil prices down, with Bush saying, “I would work with our friends in OPEC to convince them to open up the spigot, to increase the supply.”

Yet it was during the last few months of Bush’s term in 2008 that gas prices hit their highest: $4.27 when adjusted for inflation.

AND even if we did drill more here in the US, that doesn’t mean the oil would STAY in the US.

I think there’s a supposition that if we drill oil here, it will stay here. Oil companies, however, are happy to sell to the highest bidder – even if that’s China or India and NOT the United States. There’s no law saying “native oil” stays in the US.

Oil companies drill for oil and sell it to the highest bidder on the world market. Period.  There’s no national loyalty based on where oil comes from.

Read the whole article. 

New York Jets pick up Tim Tebow in trade

Tim Tebow

The Denver Broncos have traded quarterback Tim Tebow to the New York Jets in exchange for a fourth-round draft pick, Newsday is reporting.

Tebow became redundant in Denver after the team signed Peyton Manning to a five-year, $96 million contract. Newsday adds:

“Earlier this offseason, the Jets signed starting quarterback Mark Sanchez to a three-year extension that runs through 2016 and includes $20 million in guaranteed money for 2012-13. Jets owner Woody Johnson said last week the Jets ‘passed on’ Manning.”

The New York Jets will reportedly leave Mark Sanchez as their starting quarterback.

Mark Sanchez