Maryland: Marriage Equality passes Committee vote

From Metro Weekly: Maryland’s House Judiciary Committee voted today 12-10 in favor of the passage of Senate Bill 116.

The bill now moves on to the House of Delegates for a floor vote. That vote is expected in the coming week. SB-116 passed through the Senate on Feb. 24, with a 25-21 vote.

The vote came after several amendments were discussed on March 4, including one by Del. Neil Parrott (R-Washington County) to allow grandmothers to marry their grandsons. That amendment was withdrawn.

If signed into law, the legislation would grant same-sex couples in the state legal marriage recognition, while also protecting the rights of religious institutions to handle issues of marriage however they see fit.

Opponents have threatened to take the issue to take the marriage legislation to the ballot box. According to Maryland’s State Board of Elections, opponents of the marriage bill can start collecting signatures for a statewide referendum immediately after the passage of the bill in the House of Delegates, before Gov. Martin O’Malley (D) signs the bill.

A total of 55,736 signatures are required on the petition and must be submitted to Secretary of State John P. McDonough (D) by June 30. One third of those signatures are due on May 31.

Donald Trump: “No” on rights for LGBT community

Donald Trump, currently considering a possible run for the White House next year, has apparently told the Des Moines Register that gay couples should not be allowed marriage equality.

In response to a question on his position on marriage equality, Trump said “They should not be able to marry.”

In other questions regarding the rights of the LGBT community, Trump indicated that he had not come to a “fully formed” opinion on extending medical and civil benefits to gay couples, but he did say “At of this moment, I would say no and no.”

Trump, who is currently on his third marriage, clearly enjoys his own access to marriage rights and is content that the LGBT community be denied those same rights and privileges.

Maryland: House Delegate Sam Arora flip-flopping back and forth on Civil Marriage bill

Freshman Maryland Delegate Sam Arora campaigned on a platform of marriage equality in Maryland. He specifically went after and got the support of Progressive Maryland and of Equality Maryland. He raised lots of money based on his specifically stated support of marriage equality for the LGBT community.

He co-sponsored the marriage equality bill now working it’s way through the Maryland state legislature.

But a few days ago, he let some constituents know he planned to vote “no” on the bill once it reached the House floor. Immediately people in Maryland started scratching their heads -“How do you campaign on a specific issue, co-sponsor the bill then CHANGE YOUR MIND???”

In reports circulating the news, Arora has said in past days point blank that he would be voting against marriage equality because he is “born again” and doesn’t want to “redefine marriage.” He has even gone so far as to remove a Twitter post from January 25th declaring his co-sponsorship and support for marriage equality.

Needless to say this has caused a huge backlash against Arora. Scores of campaign donors are asking for their money back saying he lied during the campaign.

Today, Arora posted a statement saying:

“I will vote to send the bill to the floor because it deserves an up-or-down vote. On the floor, I will vote to send the bill to the governor so that Marylanders can ultimately decide this issue at the polls. I think that is appropriate.”

In other words, he’ll vote for it so it can be repealed by referendum.

Apparently, according to Todd E. Eberly, a political science professor at St. Mary’s College of Maryland, “some delegates signed onto the legislation because they thought it would not clear the Senate. When Senate passage became a possibility, they got scared. If you’re a proponent of the bill, you certainly don’t feel as confident as you did a week ago.”

So this elected official specifically campaigned to vote one way – cashing lots of checks along the way from supporters – thinking he wouldn’t have to ever make that fateful vote. And now, he’s been caught having to do just that.

While I don’t agree with anti-LGBT politicians, at least they are honest when they campaign. But to go out and actively seek votes and campaign dollars LYING to the people who are writing the checks to you – that is honestly the lowest you can go in politics. People should know who and what you honestly stand for in a campaign. Take a stance and be man enough to stand up for it. But don’t lie to folks just to get their dollars.

I hope Delegate Sam Arora does indeed follow through on his campaign promises.  It will be very interesting to see how he fares in the next election cycle.  My personal opinion is there is no place in public office for someone THIS lacking in integrity.

Respect for hard working teachers, fire fighters, police

Finally some passion.

I have nothing against people getting wealthy. Heck, I’d like to be wealthy.

But as Congressman Ryan points out – high level execs are getting tens of thousands in raises and the wealthy are getting tax cuts while teachers, fire fighters and police are being asked for pay cuts. Not gonna work for me.

Congressman Ryan brings some honest respect and passion to the discussion.

Bravo.

Fake Newt Gingrich supporters – you can have them too!

OK – this really makes me laugh.

Newt Gingrich launched his website (www.NewtExplore2012.com) today that will “explore the idea of exploring a possible maybe Presidential run.”

And the site is oh so inspirational – and has a big DONATE button.

What’s fabulous is the wonderful, diverse group of excited flag waving folks behind Newt and his wife. They are SOOO excited for Newt!

Or maybe not.

It turns out it’s a very popular stock photo available for anyone to buy. (I’m guessing Newt didn’t have enough supporters to call to come take the photo with him).

Very funny…. See below.

For animal lovers – the animal odd couple – very moving

This just kills me every time I watch it. The animals around us are far more advanced and sophisticated than so many dream.

A very moving story about two friends.

The friendships and relationships between animals is often very powerful.

In 2006, my daddy dog (and best friend) Bruno had a severe spinal cord injury. He had spinal surgery, but for ten days he couldn’t walk. He had to stay quiet and on his own for weeks in our master bedroom to help his recovery. His anxiety was so high when I left the room that finally I stopped leaving the room. For weeks I barely left the room. I helped him do exercises for physical therapy, we watched TV, often I just sat with him. But he missed the other dogs. He loved being part of “the pack.”

Finally, when we thought it was safe, we let Sabrina (mama dog) in to see the Bruno. Both were so anxious having not seen each other for weeks. It was so moving to see Sabrina sniff and inspect everything about Bruno until she felt he was ok. Then she laid down next to him. And the two laid there for hours. The most calm I had seen either since before his accident. It was very emotional.

Sabrina has been gone 9 months now. But there are times I still see Bruno look for her. 

He is so special. All of them are. And they teach me everyday.

An open letter to the California Supreme Court

Please read the open letter below from Ed Watson, watch the video, and if you are moved as I am, click this link to sign the petition to ask the California Supreme Court to lift the stay of marriage equality in California.

Dear Courage Campaigner,

Yesterday I found out the California Supreme Court denied a motion to speed up the Prop 8 trial. They’re going to take their summer recess and come back in around 6 months or so. It must be nice for them.

Thing is, I am 78 years old, and I have Alzheimer’s disease. I have been with my partner, Derence, for over 40 years. And if the courts drag this out for months and months, I fear I will, God forbid, lose the ability to recognize my beloved Derence when he gets on his knee to propose to me.

I can’t afford that, and Derence deserves better. That’s why I agreed to be named in Courage Campaign’s amicus curiae letter to the 9th Circuit, asking that the stay be lifted so I can at least have my dignity on our wedding day.

Please watch this video of me and my partner Derence, and then co-sign our letter to the 9th Circuit, begging them to lift the stay while the California Supreme Court drags its feet.

If the California Supreme Court is going to take its time, then we deserve the dignity of marriage…before I can’t remember what marriage is.

Humbly,

Ed Watson, Palm Springs, CA

More Americans support Marriage Equality

The General Social Survey (GSS) released data for 2010 last week, and according to Sociologist Darren Sherkat of Southern Illinois University, who boiled down the numbers, for the first time, more Americans support than oppose same-sex marriage. See the graph below:

The General Social Survey (GSS) is a survey used to collect data on demographic characteristics and attitudes of residents of the United States. Since 1994, it has been conducted every other year. The survey takes about 90 minutes to administer. As of 2008 27 national samples with 53,043 respondents and 5,364 variables had been collected.  So that’s no small sampling done – over 50,000 people were interviewed for this.

In recent CBS polling, it’s clear to see over the past 8 years approval has been trending upwards and opposition trending downwards.  Gay marriage: 40%, Civil Unions: 30% and no recognition of same-sex couples rights: 25%

Slowly but surely kids.  Getting there.  I learned in 7th grade Social Studies class “Evolution represents slow changes that last, revolution is often quick changes that don’t.”

My husband featured in Las Vegas Sun & Las Vegas Magazine

So proud of Michael! He was interviewed and featured in two major publications here in Las Vegas: The Las Vegas Sun (daily newspaper) and Las Vegas Magazine (big fab magazine).

He’s so great at what he does as a publicist, which covers more things than you would ever believe. He has the patience and charm of a prince. I could never do what he does. It’s no wonder he’s successful. Read the feature by Leslie Frisbee below:

What do Olivia Newton-John, Chippendales and Jon Secada all have in common?

Michael Caprio.

The acclaimed publicist has been representing entertainment’s elite for more than 20 years. A native New Yorker, Caprio began his career working with some of the biggest productions on Broadway, including The Phantom of the Opera, Les Misérables and Miss Saigon. Caprio sat down with “Las Vegas Magazine,” right before he departed for a tour with Newton-John, to talk about his Las Vegas favorites.

Chippendales The Show: Working with the cast and crew is a true joy! Watching the women in the audience enjoy themselves, whether they are there for a girls night, bachelorette, birthday or divorce party is so much fun to witness.

Nove Italiano: Simply the best food, wine, service and view in Las Vegas! Everything about this place is pure class. The shrimp Francaise and Nove spaghetti are incredible!

Barneys New York: As someone who loves “acquisition therapy,” Barneys brings the best of fashion and style to Las Vegas … and there’s so much to choose from.

Lake Mead: After a busy week, I look forward to the weekend with friends boating on Lake Mead. A short drive from the Strip and you are in another world with so much wildlife and amazing rock landscapes!

The Spa at Red Rock Resort: They have the best spa treatments and therapists, and you don’t have to deal with the hustle and bustle and crowds of some of the other Strip property spas. It’s like your own private heaven — the hot stone massage there is worth a million bucks!

Mystère: Though I love most of the other Cirque shows, I think Mystère is still my favorite. Maybe it’s because it was the first show I saw in Vegas during my first visit about 10 years ago.

Mon Ami Gabi: The flavor of the steak au poivre and the tasty frites are equally matched with some of the best people-watching on the Strip. I love enjoying a great meal while watching the fountains across the Strip at Bellagio.