GLEE episode movingly highlights LGBT youth bullying and suicide

For those who missed it, last week’s controversial mid-season finale episode of “Glee” may have shocked fans, but one LGBT youth advocacy group has seen a number of benefits as a result.

As Entertainment Weekly is reporting, The Trevor Project saw their web traffic spike and their phone calls triple after the episode, which depicted former bully Dave Karofsky (beautifully played by Max Adler) attempting suicide — to the tune of Young the Giant’s “Cough Syrup” — after being outed as gay to his classmates.

“What was great about the show is that they worked in conjunction with us so we knew in advance that there was going to in all likelihood be an increase in volume,” Trevor Project co-founder Peggy Rajski tells EW. “What happened was the volume went up about 300 percent, but we were ready.”

The Trevor Project is ready to help LGBTQ youth who feel they may be in crisis. If you feel you need help, please reach out 1-866-488-7386.

In high school, I weighed a lot of what raced through Dave Karofsky’s mind in this episode.  All those moments compacted in the quick video above that led to his suicide attempt happened to me at some point.  But lucky for me, I kept moving forward.

The phrase “it gets better” has, thankfully, entered our daily lexicon.  But it’s not a cliche, it’s the truth.  I want to encourage everyone to think about the power of our words, because you never know when you may be teasing the next Dave Karofsky.

Forward.

Grandparents for marriage equality

A gay activist’s grandparents have participated in a poignant new video in support of Washington state’s approval of same-sex marriage earlier this month.

As Jacob Reitan, who helped found the Soulforce Equality Ride in 2006, tells Towleroad, “My grandparents are now in their 90s. They have been blessed with a strong and beautiful marriage for nearly 70 years. Their marriage has been a role model for all of us in our family.”

Reitan, who appears in the video with his gay cousin Caleb, goes on to note, “I want to have a marriage like theirs. I want society to recognize it. I want my family and friends to celebrate with us and support us.”

Mitt Romney ahead in recent nat’l polls – Santorum already behind in Ohio before Super Tuesday arrives

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Mitt Romney leads by 6.7% in the Real Clear Politics average of recent polls regarding the GOP Presidential nomination.

We’ll see where that lies after this coming Super Tuesday.

By the way – everyone is talking about Ohio being the big prize both Santorum AND Romney really need to win.

However, not much attention has been paid to the fact that Santorum has already lost nine delegates by not being on ballots in three Ohio congressional districts. Each district merits three delegates.

Santorum failed to file a full complement of delegates in six additional districts, said central committee member Bob Bennett. That adds up to another nine delegates, for a total of 18 out of the 63 up for grabs.

Santorum also did not file all 18 of his at-large delegates.

“He may very well leave delegates on the sidelines,” Bennett said. “Say he would win 70 percent of the state. He doesn’t have that many delegates.”

Kirk Cameron – being gay is “unnatural, detrimental and destructive”

Actor-evangelist and former Growing Pains star Kirk Cameron says he doesn’t support gay marriage and homosexuality is “unnatural, detrimental, and destructive,” during an interview with CNN’s Piers Morgan. Cameron, who now makes lucrative Christian-themed movies, appeared on Morgan’s show to discuss several hot button issues, including marriage equality.

“Marriage is almost as old as dirt, and it was defined in the garden between Adam and Eve,” Cameron explains to Morgan. “One man, one woman for life till death do you part. So I would never attempt to try to redefine marriage. And I don’t think anyone else should either. So do I support the idea of gay marriage? No, I don’t.”

Asked his views on homosexuality, Cameron replies, “I think that it’s unnatural. I think that it’s detrimental, and ultimately destructive to so many of the foundations of civilization.”

Watch the interview.

LOGO Network to abandon most gay-only programming

Logo TV says the network is planning a shift in programming โ€“ which will abandon most of its gay-onlyTV lineup โ€“ follows a study that more closely identifies the way the LGBT community lives today. Findings suggest that 53 percent of gay people live openly but without a priority to showcase their sexual orientation. Only 30 percent of those surveyed say they preferred living and socializing in an exclusively LGBT community.

โ€œThe gay community continues to evolve in size, influence and identity,โ€ said Starcom Mediavestโ€™s Esther Franklin, EVP, head of SMG Americas Experience Strategy. โ€Beyond Demographics (TM) allows us to understand the needs of this critical community as they emerge and to paint a clearer, more specific picture of whatโ€™s meaningful and relevant in their lives.โ€

The updated lineup at Logo will feature shows akin to โ€œAmericaโ€™s Next Top Modelโ€, โ€œLaguna Beachโ€, and โ€œStorage Huntersโ€ after producers of those shows have signed on to produce programming absent of gay-focused plots.

Logo says it will not abandon some of its prime gay TV including โ€œRuPaulโ€™s Drag Uโ€ โ€“ one of the networkโ€™s top-performing shows.

I was under the impression that the POINT of Logo was to provide gay-centric programming.  I’ll be interested to see how these changes are implemented.  Several professionals I know in the TV/entertainment field tell me Logo rarely knows what it’s doing, and is run by people with little “big picture” experience.

I know from my own personal viewing experience in trying to support the network, it has seemed erratic in the moves it’s made in terms quality and quantity of programming.

Time will tell.
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Greg Quinlan cries as society moves forward

“I do not believe this Field Poll of 59% of California regular voters support same-sex marriage. That just flies in the face of the two real polls, two elections — one to change the laws in California, the other one to change the state Constitution. The California voters want marriage to be one man, one woman — period. In spite of the massive amounts of money, of being out-stanced and out-maneuvered, and with foot soldiers on the ground, the homosexual agenda still cannot get a majority of the voters in any state, anywhere in this nation to approve homosexual marriage — not one time.” – “Ex-gay” leader Greg Quinlan, claiming that yesterday’s poll was faked.

This is Greg Quinlan crying in his Post Toasties because society is evolving and he wishes it wasn’t.

The Field Poll is a non-partisan independent organization. 59% to 34% is a wide margin to be wrong.

The poll’s director, Mark DiCamillo, tells The Sacramento Bee that the growing support shows that opinions are changing as younger voters replace older voters. And as California’s marriage battle plays out in the courts, and judges in other states rule against traditional marriage, he says the opinion of the people is changing.

You can’t just say “I don’t believe” to make it go away, Greg. Society is evolving. It’s happening.

Forward.

William Levy – newest (and hottest) addition to Dancing With The Stars shirtless

William Levy – newly announced cast member of this seasons Dancing With The Stars – is a former model and reality TV star who’s transitioned successfully to acting on soap operas and in film.

His hunk status was solidified when People en Espanol named him one of its “50 Most Beautiful People” in 2011.

Despite Levy’s success in the Latin market, the 31-year-old Cuban says appearing on American television fulfills one of his childhood dreams: โ€œWhen I was in Cuba, when I was little I always dreamed about being here and I always dreamed about doing something in the American market, being in Hollywood, you know, so itโ€™s good to feel that itโ€™s getting closer and closer, my dream is getting closer and closer to be reality.โ€

Where my husband is right now…

The Winter Party is underway in Miami, featuring five days and nights of parties, from a Nurse Jackie cocktail reception at Score to Matinee at Space Miami.

The best part: Proceeds benefit the National Gay And Lesbian Task Force!

Of course, the only reason Michael is attending is the charitable component. That’s Michael – give, give, give. Plus he had some business meetings to attend. Good thing it just happened to coincide with the Winter Party.

Have fun down there kids!

p.s. don’t cry for me – I’m not a huge party guy. I’ve got great weather, the house to myself, a bottle of Chardonnay chilling for a late afternoon dip in the jacuzzi… life is good ๐Ÿ™‚