Porn Star Kyle Dean Dead At 21

Kyle Dean (image via Twitter)

Adult performer Kyle Dean (real name Brandon Jason Chrisan) has passed away at the age of 21.

No cause of death has been released. Toale Brothers Funeral Home lists the date of his passing as September 28.

An obituary there shares that Dean “loved to play football and physically train his body.”

“He won fourth place in an Adult Physique Competition at the age of seventeen,” the entry adds.

Dean had worked for gay adult studios Corbin Fisher and GayHoopla in recent years.

According to South Florida Gay News, Dean had several arrests over the past few years involving “multiple drug and burglary convictions.”

In March of 2017, he was ordered to take part in a drug intervention program.

SFGN also notes that Dean was described by some online commenters as “gay-for-pay,” often requesting pre-paid Uber rides or presents from his Amazon wishlist.

Over on Instinct Magazine, I’ve reported on the deaths of several porn performers this year including Falcon Studios’ Dave Slick and BrokeStraightBoys’ Tyler White.

Often, in posting these stories, there are inevitable comments blaming the porn industry for the passing of adult performers.

But it’s worth noting that people from every walk of life succumb to drug use or suicide.

Over the past 20 years, having lived in Las Vegas and the San Fernando Valley in Los Angeles, I’ve met several adult performers who have their lives together and continue to thrive.

It might be just this writer’s opinion, but perhaps because these people are in the public eye, to whatever degree, their deaths get more scrutiny than people in other walks of life?

While the porn industry connection is titilating, correlation isn’t necessarily causation.

Earlier this year, Rosie Hodson – PhD candidate with an emphasis in studying pornography – told Dazed that making generalizations about the deaths of porn performers does them “a ‘disservice’ to define them simply by their careers in porn and is a gross oversimplification to connect all of their deaths directly to their work in pornography.”

“They are individuals,” she emphasized.

And behavioral scientist Gad Saad, a chair at the John Molson School of Business in Montreal, who studies the porn industry, told the New York Post this past January that people who enter porn are no more prone to mental issues than anyone else.

There is an interest in the passing of adult performers as evidenced by the traffic these posts receive.

While I’m sure there are many who can testify to the emotional toll working in the adult entertainment industry can have on people, I don’t know that the blame for every porn performer’s death lands squarely on the industry.

But I freely admit I’m not a trained professional in assessing the issue. I’m just a writer thinking out loud.

What do you think, readers? Is the porn industry to blame for young deaths? Or is this something we see in every walk of life?

Rest in peace, Brandon Jason Chrisan.

New Ad Spot For L’Oreal Age Perfect Shows Strong Women Age Well

I love this new ad from L'Oreal featuring Jane Fonda, Helen Mirren, Julianne Moore, Isabelle Adjani, Iris Berben and Vanessa Williams.

I love this new ad from L’Oreal featuring Jane Fonda, Helen Mirren, Julianne Moore, Isabelle Adjani, Iris Berben and Vanessa Williams.

Delicious. The campaign is part of the Age Perfect range, which focuses on cosmetics for older skin.

Take a break and enjoy. Strong women age well 🙂

CNN Reporter Apologizes For Gay Slur Used In 2011 Tweet

Kaitlan Collins (image via Twitter)

Kaitlan Collins, CNN’s White House correspondent, has come under fire after homophobic tweets from her college days have come to light.

The Log Cabin Republicans, a conservative LGBTQ political group, found two tweets by Collins from 2011 when she attended the University of Alabama. In the tweets she uses the word “fag” as a putdown and in another expresses discomfort about rooming with a lesbian.

Within an hour of the Log Cabin tweet, Collins apologized via Twitter, saying she used “ignorant language” that was “immature.” She added that the tweets don’t “represent the way I feel at all.”

She closed with an unqualified, “I regret it and I apologize.”

The apology tweet received over 7,000 ‘likes’ but even more comments. Most of the replies were from far-right leaning Twitter users who used the occasion to bash Collins in an attempt to equate her two tweets in college with allegations of sexual misconduct raised against newly-confirmed Supreme Court Justice Brett Kavanaugh.

The Log Cabin Republicans made a point of tagging CNN Vice President of Communications and Digital Partnerships Matt Dornic in their tweet.

Dornic, who is openly gay, responded with support for his colleague saying while he’s “disappointed she ever used the word,” he accepts her apology and says “with certainty” those tweets don’t reflect her feelings about the LGBTQ community.

Collins has worked at CNN since 2017. Prior to that she was a contributor for the conservative political website, The Daily Caller, founded by Fox News host Tucker Carlson.

Earlier this year Donald Trump banned Collins from a press event after she asked repeated questions regarding his former lawyer, Michael Cohen.

Cohen has since pleaded guilty to eight counts of campaign finance violations, tax fraud, and bank fraud.

What do you think, readers? Is there a double-standard in play here?

Or, is there a difference between a college student using a slur in a tweet versus allegations of sexual misconduct?

Also, Collins immediately apologized without any qualifiers, i.e. “if anyone was offended…” Does that make a difference?

Do we accept apologies anymore?

And, with social media posts becoming the new ‘skeletons’ in our closets, do you think there’s anything in your Twitter/Facebook past that could come back to haunt you?

Share your thoughts in the comment section below.

Taylor Swift Comes Out Strong For LGBTQ Rights, Announces Vote For Democrat In Tennessee Senate Race

Taylor Swift (image via Instagram)

Other than some general support for the anti-gun violence movement, pop superstar Taylor Swift has been reluctant to share her political leanings.

Until now.

Sunday night, Swift posted her thoughts on the upcoming midterm elections and how she plans to vote in her home state of Tennessee.

The 28-year-old began by stating upfront her strong support for LGBTQ rights, writing, “I believe in the fight for LGBTQ rights, and that any form of discrimination based on sexual orientation or gender is WRONG.”

She goes on to say she has always championed electing women to office, Swift says she cannot bring herself to vote for the woman in the upcoming U.S. Senate race in Tennessee.

“Running for Senate in the state of Tennessee is a woman named Marsha Blackburn,” writes Swift. “As much as I have in the past and would like to continue voting for women in office, I cannot support Marsha Blackburn. Her voting record in Congress appalls and terrifies me.”

“She voted against equal pay for women,” she continued. “She voted against the Reauthorization of the Violence Against Women Act, which attempts to protect women from domestic violence, stalking, and date rape. She believes businesses have a right to refuse service to gay couples. She also believes they should not have the right to marry. These are not MY Tennessee values.”

Swift then announced, “I will be voting for (Democrat) Phil Bredesen for Senate and Jim Cooper for House of Representatives.”

She also urged all of her fans to ‘educate’ themselves, make sure they register (October 9 is the deadline in Tennessee) and specifically spoke to young people.

“So many intelligent, thoughtful, self-possessed people have turned 18 in the past two years and now have the right and privilege to make their vote count,” wrote the international pop-star.

She closed her message with a rainbow emoji and “Happy Voting!”

RealClearPolitics shows Blackburn with an average 2 point lead over Bredesen.

Swift has 112 million Instagram followers and 83.5 Twitter followers.

I’m writing this post about the upcoming midterm elections on November 6th, in which I’ll be voting in the state of Tennessee. In the past I’ve been reluctant to publicly voice my political opinions, but due to several events in my life and in the world in the past two years, I feel very differently about that now. I always have and always will cast my vote based on which candidate will protect and fight for the human rights I believe we all deserve in this country. I believe in the fight for LGBTQ rights, and that any form of discrimination based on sexual orientation or gender is WRONG. I believe that the systemic racism we still see in this country towards people of color is terrifying, sickening and prevalent. I cannot vote for someone who will not be willing to fight for dignity for ALL Americans, no matter their skin color, gender or who they love. Running for Senate in the state of Tennessee is a woman named Marsha Blackburn. As much as I have in the past and would like to continue voting for women in office, I cannot support Marsha Blackburn. Her voting record in Congress appalls and terrifies me. She voted against equal pay for women. She voted against the Reauthorization of the Violence Against Women Act, which attempts to protect women from domestic violence, stalking, and date rape. She believes businesses have a right to refuse service to gay couples. She also believes they should not have the right to marry. These are not MY Tennessee values. I will be voting for Phil Bredesen for Senate and Jim Cooper for House of Representatives. Please, please educate yourself on the candidates running in your state and vote based on who most closely represents your values. For a lot of us, we may never find a candidate or party with whom we agree 100% on every issue, but we have to vote anyway. So many intelligent, thoughtful, self-possessed people have turned 18 in the past two years and now have the right and privilege to make their vote count. But first you need to register, which is quick and easy to do. October 9th is the LAST DAY to register to vote in the state of TN. Go to vote.org and you can find all the info. Happy Voting! 🗳😃🌈
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Out Music: Matt Zarley “Your Song”

Matt Zarley

Woofy singer/songwriter Matt Zarley recently dropped his latest music video, “Your Song.”

Zarley says he was drawn to cover the Rita Ora tune the first time he heard it. “It’s one of those songs that doesn’t leave your brain – a true worm,” says the award-winning recording artist. “I just loved the way it made me feel and I love the lyrics.”

He decided to record the song as he was putting together a new two-man show with frequent partner in crime, Jeb Havens, called Works of Heart.

“I knew it would fit perfectly in the thematic structure of the show,” he shares. “This song will also be on our album that’s coming out in a few months.”

The hunky singer (People Magazine‘s first out ‘sexiest bachelor’) takes a stripped-down, acoustic approach for the upbeat track which pairs well with his buoyant power pop vocals.

Being a do-it-yourself kinda guy, Zarley not only produced and recorded the song, but he came up with the concept for the video and edited it as well.

And speaking of editing, it doesn’t take long to figure out Zarley’s ‘band members’ in the music video all look a bit … familiar.

“I have always loved the “cloning” effect on film, and I didn’t want to make this particular video narrative heavy and overly sentimental,” says Zarley. “So I opted for this idea instead.”

But it turns out capturing the ‘all-Matt’ band proved a bit challenging.

“It was really tricky, to be honest,” shares Zarley. “All of the shots of each character in the band had to be done with similar sunlight. Since we shot it outside, that made things it a little temperamental and unpredictable.”

“By the time we got all of the band shots, our plan was to get solo shots of each band member,” he explains. “But, the sun was starting to move, so I could only do one take of each band member. It was a little tricky, and a bit hectic, but we got it done.”

This isn’t Zarley’s first experience behind the camera.

In 2015, he wrote, produced and starred in a long-form music video titled Hopeful Romantic, which co-starred everyone’s favorite gay uncle, George Takei. The short was featured at dozens of film festivals winning several awards along the way.

Looking ahead, Zarley shares he’d like to tackle another short film. “I just have to write it first,” he says with a smile.

Instinct previously covered Zarley’s stunning cover of the Sara Bareilles hit, “Gravity,” here.

Check out the music video for “Your Song” below. Find more of Zarley’s music on YouTube here, and you can follow him on Instagram here.

Romania: Epic Fail For Haters As Anti-Marriage Equality Referendum Fails To Garner Enough Votes

Anti-LGBT forces sought to write a permanent same-sex marriage ban into the country's constitution, but failed on an epic level when only 20% of registered voters turned out.

Anti-LGBT forces sought to write a permanent same-sex marriage ban into the country’s constitution, but failed on an epic level when only 20% of registered voters turned out.

The referendum needed at least 30% participation in order to be considered valid.

Opponents had encouraged voters to boycott the referendum.

Even though the Romanian Orthodox Church supported the constitutional revision, the church failed to mobilize its followers.

The Romanian Constitutional Court ruled last month that gay couples should have the same rights as all families.

In June 2018, the European Union’s high court ruled that member nations must grant residency rights to LGBT couples legally married in other EU countries after a Romanian national sued to bring his American husband to Romania.

Same-sex marriage is currently legal in 14 of the 28 EU member nations.

Review: The Joy That Is ‘Once On This Island’

I didn’t realize it had been a nearly a year since I’d visited New York City until I planned a recent trip back east.

My bestie for life, Carlye, was being installed as the new Episcopal Bishop for the Diocese of Newark. So I made sure I built in a day to catch up on some Broadway 🙂

And man, am I glad I did.

It took me a year to get to Circle in the Square on Broadway to see the Tony Award winning revival of Once On This Island, but it was definitely worth the wait.

Wow.

It would be easy to run out of superlatives that describe this gorgeous, delightful and supremely creative masterpiece running strong nearly a year after opening on Broadway.

But it’s also just as easy to pick one word to describe this theatrical experience: Joy.

In a world that seems turned upside-down at times, director Michael Arden’s grounded new staging of this musical fable about a boy and girl named Daniel and Ti Moune set in the French Antilles is a testament to the belief that that which lifts us up can conquer darkness.

In that this is theater-in-the-round, the entire show is an environmental experience from the moment you enter the space.

The show begins with the citizens of this island intermittently entering the sandy beach to begin their day. Along the way, there’s trash to pick up (guess where the cast’s props come from?), greetings to make, and goats (live ones) to walk.

But then, a storm frightens a small girl and the denizens of the island take on different roles to tell the story of Ti Moune, sharing the lesson that love can “withstand the storm, and cross the earth, and survive, even in the face of death.”

The winning score by musical theater veterans Lynn Ahrens and Stephen Flaherty (Ragtime, Anatasia) is easily one of the most melodic currently on Broadway. Kudos to music supervisor Chris Fenwick for the undeniably artful singing throughout the show. From lead vocals to the sung sounds of birds and frogs, this is high-end musicality.

And speaking of leads, the casting here is perfection as each actor steps forward to take their turn in the spotlight.

From Alex Newell’s “Asaka – goddess of the earth,” who brings down the house with an exuberant and effervescent “Mama Will Provide;” to Quentin Earl Darrington’s “Agwe – god of the ocean,” who sets the stage for Ti Moune and Daniel to meet with vocal power that’s truly a force of nature (“Rain”); Darlesia Cearcy’s “Erzulie, goddess of love” is delicious bringing the two young lovers together in “Human Heart;” and American Idol alum Tamyra Gray is stunning as “Papa Ge, god of death.”

Tamyra Gray as “Papa Ge” (all photos – Joan Marcus)

Oh yes, you’ll note Newell and Gray take on their roles through gender-blind casting, which works flawlessly.

In Michael Arden’s island world, the temperamental gods are gender fluid.

The beauty here is that once the story begins, the commitment to storytelling is such that we don’t think about gender, just the tale being told – to spectacular effect.

Alex Newell (L) as “Asaka” and Hailey Kilgore as “Ti Moune”

While gods have their power, Kenita R. Miller and Boise Holmes, who play “Mama Euralie” and “Tonton Julian” respectively, bring grounding, vulnerable humanity as the couple that adopts young Ti Moune.

Their goodbye to Ti Moune as she leaves them to journey to her destiny is a heartfelt, emotional highpoint.

Other intimate moments, like the lilting “Some Girls,” sung with charming warmth by “Daniel” (Isaac Powell), allows romantic respite from larger numbers.

And then there’s the fire and grace of Hailey Kilgore, whose Broadway debut as Ti Moune was fittingly honored with a Tony Award nomination for “Best Actress in a Leading Role” and a Theatre World Award.

Her vocal range and artistry, front and center in the joyful “Waiting for Life,” is only equaled by her earthy, ebullient passion on display in “Ti Moune’s Dance.”

And speaking of dance, choreographer Camille A. Brown (Drama Desk nomination) brings a physical vocabulary that provides a visual, human heartbeat throughout the evening in moments big and small.

You may remember the sexy, richly organic staging she brought to the Emmy Award-winning Jesus Christ Superstar Live! earlier this year on NBC.

This isn’t “TV dance competition high kicks and spins.” From storyteller to storyteller, every movement throughout the evening is borne out of characters living in the moment.

Quentin Earl Darrington as “Agwe”

I’m not the only one who’s smitten. The critics fell over themselves when the production debuted:

“A big, bold, ravishing delight! After seeing this imaginative and dynamic musical, you may feel once is not enough!”– New York Times

“Bewitching and beautiful!” – New York Daily News

“A place where magic is possible and beauty is apparent for all to see!” – The Huffington Post

“Impossible to resist!” – NY1

Go see this gorgeous revival of Once On This Island at Circle in the Square on Broadway to feel your spirit refilled.

Once On This Island is intimate, romantic, inspiring, creative, uplifting.

Once On This Island is joy.

Trump Twitter Rant: Democrats ‘Too Extreme,’ Too ‘Dangerous’ To Govern

Just hours after Judge Brett Kavanaugh was confirmed to the U.S. Supreme Court by a Senate vote of 50-48, Donald Trump told his followers at a rally in Kansas that Democrats "have become too extreme and too dangerous to govern."
Donald Trump

Just hours after Judge Brett Kavanaugh was confirmed to the U.S. Supreme Court by a Senate vote of 50-48, Donald Trump told his followers at a rally in Kansas that Democrats “have become too extreme and too dangerous to govern.”

He stoked that divisive rhetoric even more by tweeting the message to his social media fans saying, “You don’t hand matches to an arsonist, and you don’t give power to an angry left-wing mob.”

Brett Kavanaugh Confirmed To The Supreme Court By Vote Of 50-48

The U.S. Senate voted to confirm Judge Brett Kavanaugh to the U.S. Supreme Court today by a vote of 50-48.
Brett Kavanaugh 

The U.S. Senate voted to confirm Judge Brett Kavanaugh to the U.S. Supreme Court today by a vote of 50-48.

Republican Sen. Lisa Murkowski withdrew her ‘no’ vote as a courtesy to Montana Republican Sen. Steve Daines, who is walking his daughter down the aisle in Montana today.

There’s an irony that Kavanaugh is the 69th judge confirmed by the Trump administration.

Web Series: “jaded”

From Executive Producers JD Scalzo and Brian Emerick comes the original web series jaded.

We had $9k, 6 days, shot 5 eps, and had 1 amazing cast and crew.

Via press release:

jaded takes a look into the contemporary gay dating world particular to San Francisco, through the eyes of a man lost inside the hookup culture, while on a relentless pursuit for a way out.

He asks all the questions, he tries all the things, he falls in love in all the wrong places.

Exploring a variety of complicated relationships, through a multi-diverse array of friends and lovers, we watch him play both the victim and the culprit, traversing a world full of contradictions, over-the-top self expression, casual drug use, and the age-old idea of “free love” with all the consequences that follow.

In a place seemingly without any rules, how do you know which game to play when you don’t really want to play one to begin with?