‘Don’t Say Gay’ – How The ‘New Right’ Is Outlawing LGBTQ Progress

Florida state Rep. Andrew Learned protested against the passage of Florida's hateful anti-LGBTQ Don't Say Gay law as the 'new right' is outlawing LGBTQ progress
Florida State Rep. Andrew Learned (image via Twitter)

In this guest post, Lawrence Pfeil, Jr. of theOUTfront.com shares his outrage over the passage of the “Don’t Say Gay” bill which passed in Florida’s state legislature this week and how the ‘new right’ is outlawing LGBTQ progress.


This first of its kind law will by no means be the last as similar laws are pending across the country and certain to be copied in other conservative-controlled state houses.

Here’s a quick overview of “Don’t Say Gay” posted last month before the bill passed in Florida:

As with many laws being passed in states by the “new right,” Don’t Say Gay is designed to control, limit and/or diminish the voices and places in our pluralistic society of yet another marginalized community. The law attempts to silence and erase LGBT+ people by prohibiting discussions about them i.e. free speech, as similar laws have with people of color in history.

What’s more it defacto deputizes citizens to enforce the law by allowing them to sue anyone they feel violates it, as lawmakers in Texas structured their recent abortion ban.

In essence, the new right has set up terror tactics not unlike the recent “Fake News” law in Russia as to what can be said about Putin’s war in Ukraine. (That sentence is now punishable with 15 years in prison.)

Even more so, the Third Reich demands all good citizens to report anyone they suspect of not being loyal and conforming to its laws. Republicans have one upped the Nazis by monetizing Christian White Supremacy with the ability to sue.

What’s truly insidious about Florida’s law is its intentionally vague language. On the surface, it seems to be directed at the youngest school children in the state. But look a little closer at the following clause – it’s easy to see how the law could be extrapolated to all grades.

From TIME.com:

The bill also creates a new avenue of litigation, as it potentially allows parents to sue the school district if they believe their children were provided inappropriate instruction about “sexual orientation or gender identity.” Advocates say that broad wording of the law could open the door for lawsuits about instruction provided in grade levels higher than the third grade.

Trust and believe, Evangelicals with children at any age will object to anyone discussing anything even remotely LGBT+ positive.

As this heinous hate bill worked its way through the Florida legislature, the true repugnant nature of its supporters became crystal clear. Their despicable words echoed the vilest homophobic lies and misinformation of decades gone by. This included Christina Pushaw, press secretary for Gov. Ron DeSantis, equating LGBTQ people with pedophiles.

Christina Pushaw - press secretary to Florida Gov. Ron DeSantis compared LGBTQ people to pedophiles as the 'new right' continues outlawing LGBTQ progress
Christina Pushaw (image via Twitter)

If Republicans in Florida were actually concerned about keeping children safe from “groomers” and pedophiles they’d be passing laws to keep Catholic priests 100 yards away from children.

Equally stunning – in her unmitigated stupidity – was Florida state Sen. Ileana Garcia (R), who expressed her support for the bill stating, “Gay is not a permanent thing, LGBT is not a permanent thing.”

The idea that LGBT isn’t permanent or “just a phase” reeks of the Fundamentalist Christian belief in “pray the gay away” which led to harmful and life-scarring “conversion therapy” which has no actual basis in fact.

The kind of harm Don’t Say Gay laws create will be life-changing, and very likely life-ending as well. The scope of its influence goes from the most innocent and everyday to egregiously neglectful. Imagine LGBT+ teachers forced back into the closet because they can’t have a picture of their spouse or family on their desk like other teachers.

What happens to the kid who draws a picture of her loving, happy family with two daddies? Is it banned from display and she’s told it’s because her family is not allowed?

When there is a PTA Open House, will the boy with two mommies be told to stay home because his family will be breaking the law? When this inevitably spreads through the upper grades, will LGBT+ students and parents be barred from graduation ceremonies?

This law is named “Parents Rights in Education,” but where are the equal rights in public education of LGBT+ parents who pay the taxes that fund the same schools?

This law is literally a fatal mistake. The “different” kid who gets bullied and called fairy, sissy or faggot at recess or gym class will have no teacher to turn to for protection. The one who is gender nonconforming and being beaten at home can’t ask their teacher for help anymore and their teacher can’t ask if their safe.

More than 42% of LGBT+ youth who are questioning and/or coming to terms with their sexuality or identity have seriously considered suicide in the last year, that doesn’t count the ones who’ve succeeded. They’re 23% less likely to do so when learning about it in school, according to The Trevor Project.

Florida’s Don’t Say Gay law and the others like it are meant to outlaw LGBTQ progress and minimize our community, and our kids are getting hurt and suffering in the process. Just listen to out Florida State Sen. Shervin Jones:

Sadly, the new right, especially Evangelicals, doesn’t care if LGBT+ people or our kids are hurt. The truth is they believe there is nothing worse than being gay “for the Bible tells them so.” To their mind:

God made Adam and Eve. We choose to be gay.

It’s not what God wants. Therefore, we are against God.

As such, we do not deserve protections, rights, or equality.

This is not my opinion of Evangelicals – it’s my truth and my reality for I’m related to them. I know how “divinely” right they believe themselves to be and exactly how hateful they are firsthand.

The codifying of Evangelical beliefs into laws is a weapon in the culture wars for political gain. Look how it worked for the former president. He is the living antithesis of everything Evangelicals stand for, but he gave them victories over the social issues they’d been losing for decades; so, the hypocrites worshiped him which is all he ever wants.

Now his likely successors are trying to out do him with even more draconian rollbacks and reversals of established rights what with a solidly conservative Supreme Court likely to endorse their religious hate.

What’s at stake are decades of progress in every aspect of life not only for the LGBT+ community but for communities of color, women, and non-Christian faiths who are demonized more and more by the new right.

It sounds horrific and discouraging but here’s the reality: In Florida only 40% of voters support Don’t Say Gay; nationally, 72% of Americans support protecting voting rights; and 78% support a woman’s right to choose. The will of the people, the vast majority of the people, is on the side of progress and equality.

We cannot allow our lives and liberties to be hijacked by a regressive, religious driven minority party bent on autocracy. We may be different communities, races, genders, faiths, with diverse tastes, goals, and dreams, but together we are the majority in America and the authentic American ideal: E Pluribus Unum, out of many, one. And the time is now for us – all of us – to come together in action to put a stop to the rise of the new right before its hate erases us all.

As Benjamin Franklin said, “We must all hang together or surely we shall hang separately.”

Lawrence Pfeil, Jr., is a freelance writer/playwright who has written for media outlets including The Randy Report, the New York Blade, and Edge Publications. You can follow him at TheOUTfront.com.