A new policy proposal from the Trump administration could affect a lot of LGBTQ Americans in terms of healthcare and their wallets. The Washington Blade reports the Centers for Medicare and Medicaid Services issued a draft rule last month that would allow insurance companies to ignore ‘co-pay coupons’ for prescription drugs in regard to computing a patient’s out-of-pocket spending. In the past, insurance companies have allowed copay coupons (which reduce prices at checkout) to count towards a patient’s deductible and out-of-pocket limits. For instance, if you are a gay man who takes PrEP (pre-exposure prophylaxis) as protection against HIV infection, you may be acquainted with Gilead’s Advancing Access co-pay coupon card which pays up to $7,200 annually towards your copay and/or deductible if you have health insurance. As many have found, when used to cover your PrEP prescription, within one or two months many patients find their deductible or out-of-pocket maximums have been met because the co-pay coupon counts towards those limits. From that point on, you might have low or zero out-of-pocket medical expenses. But if the proposed rule is adopted, insurance companies could block those coupon payments from being applied towards a patient’s deductible and out-of-pocket maximums – even though the insurance company isn’t having to pay. Why does an insurance company care where the funds come from as long as the bill gets paid??? In those cases, you would have to pay much more in regard to out-of-pocket spending before reaching your deductible. And it’s not just HIV medications in play here. The new policy could affect Americans with hepatitis B or C, who need daily medications to stay healthy in the case of hepatitis B, and for medications to cure hepatitis C which requires treatment for up to 12 weeks. Donald Trump has said in the past he wants to lower the cost of prescription drugs, but this certainly won’t do the trick.
As the Blade notes, some patients with limited funds often skip a dose of medications here or there to stretch out the drugs they have. But studies have shown that missing just two days of HIV meds can increase an individual’s viral load. It’s not just HIV or hepatitis patients that could be affected. A study from the IQVIA Institute for Human Data Science shows in 2017 69 percent of insured Americans did not fill their new prescriptions when they had to pay more than $250 out of pocket. Such non-adherence leads to tens of thousands of preventable deaths each year. In the end, while Trump may profess to want to help the American people with their healthcare costs, this new policy would only favor insurance companies. Here’s hoping the new policy proposal is rejected. (source: Washington Blade)
Gay Mayor Of Wilton Manor Dies Of Brain Aneurysm
Justin Flippen, the 41-year-old openly gay mayor of Wilton Manors, Florida, died suddenly early Tuesday night as he was driving to a meeting of the Wilton Manors City Commission. Wilton Manors Police Chief Paul O’Connell said Flippen was taken to a nearby hospital due to a serious “medical issue,” and that he was later pronounced dead at the hospital. Police Chief Paul O’Connell said Wednesday that the Medical Examiner’s Office determined Flippen died of a brain aneurysm. Flippen was elected mayor in 2018 on a platform of experience, fiscal responsibility, inclusive community values and protecting neighborhoods’ small-town feel. He had filed to run for reelection this November. 
I’m saddened by the loss of Mayor @justinflippen, who was so encouraging and kind whenever we saw him. My prayers go out to his family, loved ones, and the city of Wilton Manors. Our communities owe so much to public servants like Justin.https://t.co/aoSbo7hpN8
— Pete Buttigieg (@PeteButtigieg) February 26, 2020
Bi Twitter Rises Up As #BisexualMenExist Trends

The biphobia towards Bi men recently has been so shit and honestly, in MY LGBT+ history month?! How dare! So I’m bring back #BisexualMenExist for some much needed positivity! Drop a pic below with the hashtag and RT this thread! Allies, also RT! I’ll start! 💖💜💙 pic.twitter.com/BYl1D2hzvV
— Vaneet Mehta #20ThemTy 🌺 (@nintendomad888) February 24, 2020
#BisexualMenExist and we are very cool, highly reccommend befriending a bi guy pic.twitter.com/tkyMzQ9jyO
— joshua rush (@JoshuaRush) February 25, 2020
#BisexualMenExist no matter how masculine we are, no matter whether we are dating a man or woman, and we deserve to be seen. Just like everyone, we deserve to be loved. pic.twitter.com/SdxG0RBwth
— R.K. Russell (@RKRelentless) February 25, 2020
Joyfully reminding y'all that #BisexualMenExist and sometimes take selfies in trucks pic.twitter.com/iHbLr36BK2
— Karl Thorssen (@KThorssen) February 25, 2020
Tell em Boy Bi 🌻 #bisexualmenexist pic.twitter.com/dfnpWyCnVu
— LEGATRON 🇩🇴 (@TheOfficialChe) February 26, 2020
It’s taken me a long time to understand who I really am. I fully embrace it! Joining this train to represent my community! #BisexualMenExist pic.twitter.com/z2iZKz1YlC
— AJ Montgomery (@Aaijai13) February 26, 2020
I can confirm #BisexualMenExist.
Here's one spotted in the wild. pic.twitter.com/9hvREUCe1q
— Bae Grylls, Tumblr Bisexual (Esq.) (@TheAuracl3) February 25, 2020
Happily married to my wife for 15 and a half years! I love to cosplay, vote, and I write books with a bi protagonist!#BisexualMenExist pic.twitter.com/I7jjAAdzD9
— William C. Tracy (@wctracy) February 25, 2020
Right over here. And we're Dads too! #BisexualMenExist pic.twitter.com/dpgFk50kh3
— Arran Skinner (@arranskinner) February 25, 2020
So happy that #bisexualmenexist is trending… here’s proof that I am alive pic.twitter.com/MPToAvXZ9s
— Tobin (@T_Dot1111) February 25, 2020
Of course us #BisexualMenExist! If you think otherwise it's because we're too busy being lit af, playing with swords and exploring the wilderness. Tiocfaidh ár lá 🏳️🌈 pals! pic.twitter.com/82cpws2Bgr
— Asal Mór na hÉireann (@An_Asal_Dathuil) February 25, 2020
Oooo existing is fun! #BisexualMenExist pic.twitter.com/2Fce5A4h5Z
— Homie Homo 💗💜💙 (@_kingmuh_) February 25, 2020
#BisexualMenExist period. This message is especially for my Black community.
Bi Black Men: Stand up and be proud of your sexuality.
Straights: Allow our brothers to be sexually free. We have much bigger fish to fry when it comes to our community as a whole. pic.twitter.com/mABWlV98Ba— Harriet Tubman's Wakanda Fighting Spirit (@shizzy_snorlax) February 25, 2020
When I date a guy, I’m bisexual. When I date a girl, I’m still bisexual. #BisexualMenExist pic.twitter.com/ZxIEcFplQj
— Steve (@SteveFaciana) February 25, 2020
I struggled with imposter syndrome a lot that affects everything from how I dress to labeling my sexuality. But recently I’ve gotten to a point where I’m finally comfortable expressing myself 🤗 #BisexualMenExist pic.twitter.com/v5Oil6eMyM
— Dan 🥀 (@marbleplague) February 25, 2020
Swinging both ways like a French door. Lol. #BisexualMenExist pic.twitter.com/bCoEnkkptR
— J.Orabuena (@museless_me) February 26, 2020
bi kings rise up #BisexualMenExist pic.twitter.com/9fxr3PDaUn
— breathtaking bisexual bussy baddie (@DaddySoSaddy) February 26, 2020
So apparently #BisexualMenExist, thank god, I was about to have an existential crisis there for a moment.
Good to know I'm not about to have Marty McFly moment and start phasing out of existence.
Anyway, here's some halfway decent selfies of my dumb ass. pic.twitter.com/iBwfDl5XOg
— DELETETH THIS (@Deleteth_This) February 25, 2020
#BisexualMenExist saw this trending and i had to set the record straight ok 🥺 pic.twitter.com/tOKnULA2BP
— josiah 🌺 (@josiuhhh) February 25, 2020
#BisexualMenExist We exist and so do our pets, annoyed with us taking pics of them pic.twitter.com/8u3bmIntEd
— Tomas Kyle the WereBi 🌙 (@TomasKylexxx) February 24, 2020
I’m late to the game but #BisexualMenExist pic.twitter.com/V8YVuVZ3Am
— Ryder! (@cuddlyryder) February 26, 2020
#bisexualmenexist and no I’m not confused or lost or a waste. pic.twitter.com/uAOWgR5Tvf
— Adrian Toca (@adrian_toca) February 26, 2020
Gus Kenworthy: Gay Culture 101
Life in the Twitters. Gus Kenworthy commented on a video posted on Twitter by YouTube star Tyler Oakley where a hot guy in the subway riffed on the current “Finish the lyric…” trend. Said Kenworthy, “‘Oh damn he cute’ and then I realized that I’ve hooked up with him and if that is not gay culture I don’t know what is…” #gaylife
I thought, “oh damn he cute” and then I realized that I’ve hooked up with him and if that is not gay culture I don’t know what is…
— Gus Kenworthy (@guskenworthy) February 21, 2020
New Law Could Pave The Way For Bathhouses To Return To San Francisco
District 8 Supervisor Rafael Mandelman, who represents the LGBTQ-centric Castro area in San Francisco, has introduced legislation that would lay the groundwork for allowing gay bathhouses to reopen. Back in 1984, as the AIDS epidemic was reaching a fever-pitch, San Francisco put new rules in place ordering owners to tear down individual cubicles with locks on the doors as well as having employees ‘monitor’ the sexual activities of patrons to ensure there was no unsafe sex taking place. But advancements in medical science in the decades since has changed the HIV landscape. Modern HIV medications are now capable of bringing viral loads down to undetectable making transmission of the virus nearly impossible. Plus, the advent of PrEP (pre-exposure prophylaxis) has led to a dramatic decline in new HIV infections, especially in San Francisco. According to the Bay Area Reporter, new diagnoses of HIV dropped below 200 in 2018. District 6 Supervisor Matt Haney, whose district includes the South of Market neighborhood where most gay bathhouses were located back in the day, has expressed his support of the new legislation. Pointing to the advances in HIV drugs, as well as research which has shown monitoring sexual activity in bathhouses has “little to no effect,” Haney announced he will be co-sponsoring Mandelman’s legislation. The change in policies would instruct the city health director to “revise the health department’s minimum standards governing the operation of adult sex venues so they no longer ban locked doors or require sex monitoring by staff,” writes the Bay Area Reporter. The proposal could also include requiring bathhouses to provide free condoms and other safe sex supplies. The ordinance requires that these new minimum standards be adopted by no later than July 1, 2020, and that there be a public notice and public comment process. “When properly operated, by providing access to safer sex educational materials and supplies and HIV and STD testing, these venues assist rather than impede our efforts to control the transmission of HIV,” said Mandelman in a statement. “I hope that this ordinance will support our efforts to get to zero new HIV infections and will put a bookend on a painful chapter in the history of the queer community in San Francisco.” Although no bathhouses currently operate in San Francisco, there are gay sex clubs, like Eros, which is a condoms-only club and doesn’t offer individual, private rooms for sexual activity. (Source: Bay Area Reporter)
Matthew Dempsey Says It’s Ok To Be ‘Needy’

Billy Porter Delivers 2020 LGBTQ State Of The Union
Emmy, Grammy and Tony Award winner Billy Porter (above) delivers the LGBTQ State of the Union, reflecting on the past year and looking to the year ahead for the LGBTQ+ community.
A Trans Teen Hears His Name Called At Starbucks
A new ad captures the quiet triumph of a transgender teen hearing his name being called as he picks up his coffee at Starbucks. The spot, part of the “What’s your name?” campaign for Starbucks, will air in the U.K. and online. Partnering with the U.K. trans youth organization Mermaids, the coffee giant will also sell limited-edition mermaid cookies to raise up to £100,000 ($130,000) for the group. The ad follows James as people throughout his day dead name him. On his school ID card, by family members, even at his doctor’s office. But when he orders his coffee at a Starbucks, he’s asked his name. “It’s James,” we hear the teen reply. A moment later, the employee calls out the name “James,” and the brief smile says it all. From Starbucks UK: At Starbucks, writing your name on a cup and calling it out is a symbol of our warm welcome. It’s a small gesture, but it’s symbolic of what we believe in: Recognition and acceptance, whoever you are, or want to be. We welcome everyone. We’re proud to support Mermaids, a charity supporting young transgender and gender diverse people and their families. If you need to speak to someone, you can find their helpline here: http://mermaidsuk.org.uk Several folks expressed their support for the ad spot on Twitter along with some of their own stories:
As someone who is trans, I can not express how much this means to me. It may seem like a small thing, but to a trans person it means everything. Thank you Starbucks.
— Daniel (@Daniel83522138) February 2, 2020
Cried happy tears watching that advert. Made me feel all those feelings the first time someone said my name. 🥰❤🧡💛💚💙💜🤎🖤
— Aiden BEM (@GeekyMonkey_85) February 2, 2020
This was from 2 years ago at Schiphol Airport, Amsterdam. It was such a beautifully written confirmation of who I am.Fab to see @Mermaids_Gender being supported👍 #WhatsYourName pic.twitter.com/DpD2Etitrf
— Rachel Harper (@Harperexpress) February 3, 2020
As someone who is trans I can’t express how much this campaign means. Loved to know when the cookie is available! #WhatsYourName
— leo the hamster dad 🐹 (@sipping_theT) February 2, 2020
Billy Porter To Deliver LGBTQ State Of The Union Address
On February 4, Donald Trump will deliver his State of the Union address. Emmy, Grammy and Tony Award winner Billy Porter has announced he will deliver the LGBTQ State of the Union address at Noon ET on Logo TV, Facebook Twitter and YouTube. Porter notes that his speech will contain ‘more complete sentences’ than the Donald’s. Watch the video announcement below.
🌈🏛 Now this is a #StateOfTheUnion worth watching! Join us for the LGBTQ State of the Union with @theebillyporter, Tuesday February 4th at Noon ET on Logo’s Facebook, Twitter, and YouTube. 🏳️🌈🇺🇸#LGBTQSOTU #SOTU pic.twitter.com/iyR9VQZrjs
— Logo 🏳️🌈 (@LogoTV) January 31, 2020
Inclusive Coffee Ad Hits The Sweet Spot
A Belgium coffee company has seen its latest commercial, titled “Something To Share,” go viral and gay Twitter approves. Belgium-based instant coffee brand Douwe Egberts initially shows two teens getting hot and heavy in a romantical moment at home and one of them is covered by a hoodie. When dad walks in the door, the teens make a dash for upstairs. During the run to the bedroom, though, dad gets a glimpse of the couple. His daughter registers a moment of concern, but the next thing she knows she gets a text message complete with three coffee emojis.
As the teens sit down for java, the inclusive twist is revealed along with the slogan, “We all have something to share over a Douwe Egberts coffee.” Good on you, Douwe Egberts
And gay Twitter goes wild:
Wow perhaps I suddenly love Douwe Egberts I fucking love being Dutch I love Dutch coffee https://t.co/DmH7DmdMX4
— Esmée (@killingesmee) January 17, 2020
I love my coffee with a sprinkle of gay
— Aaliyah Scott (@_musicsavelife) January 16, 2020
Oh Douwe Egberts- proud that Dutch companies are so in tune with the world in that way. Proud to live in a progressive, fair country ❤️
— Saskia Stolk (@saskia_stolk) January 18, 2020