“My Uncle’s Wedding”

Great reviews for this children’s book that helps explain tolerance, love and equality to young ones. I think this is great for parents to sit and read with their children to address these important life issues with respect and sensitivity.

Check it out here.

About the book:
There’s so much to do now that Uncle Mike and Steve are getting married. Follow Andy on this enjoyable journey as he talks about his uncle’s wedding, how it affects him, and the things he gets to do in preparation for the ceremony. You’ll laugh and smile as you read this adorable story about marriage and family.

Reviews:
“It’s never too early to teach our nation’s children about lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender equality. And ‘My Uncle’s Wedding’ does just that, showing children that marriage is about love and family. Eric Ross perfectly demonstrates that LGBT families share the same values as any other family, and his book will undoubtedly educate and inform generations to come about the freedom to marry. Bravo!”
Kate Kendell, Esq. – Executive Director
National Center for Lesbian Rights

“My Uncle’s Wedding is the sweet story of Uncle Mike and Uncle Steve’s wedding as experienced through the eyes of their nephew, Andy. This children’s book is the perfect gift for any child who loves a good story and especially children with gay people in their family. The author approaches the subject of same-sex marriage with a child’s sensitivity and sensibility, and the beautiful illustrations are sure to be enjoyed by kids and parents alike.”
Molly McKay – National Media Director
Marriage Equality USA

“It is a parent’s responsibility to teach their children tolerance of all people, and I have yet to find a better tool to begin that lesson than My Uncle’s Wedding.”
Alan Chin – Writer
Examiner.com

“Everyone agrees that children should learn in an “age-appropriate” manner, but it’s also important that they learn tolerance and respect for everyone. With My Uncle’s Wedding, parents and teachers alike will have a great book to teach young children that a gay marriage is just like any marriage – it’s about two people who love each other.”
Paul Hogarth – Writer
BeyondChron

Here’s the official website for the book.

Marriage equality increases revenue by 29%

New York’s Marriage Equality Act has been good for business at the clerk’s office in the city of Niagara Falls.

Clerk Carol Antonucci told city lawmakers last week that revenue from the issuance of marriage licenses is up 29 percent so far this year. During a presentation of her department’s proposed 2012 budget, Antonucci reported marriage license revenues of $13,457 from Jan. 1 through Sept. 30, up from $10,430 from the same period last year.

Antonucci said revenue from marriage ceremonies involving the city has increased as well. For the first nine months of 2011, her office took in $10,200 in marriage ceremony revenue compared to $8,400 for the same period a year ago.

Antonucci said her office is now regularly issuing more than 10 marriage licenses per day. She attributes part of the spike in activity to the state’s Marriage Equality Act, a law passed in June that granted marriage rights to same-sex couples in New York.

“We’re pretty much busy all day, everyday issuing marriage licenses,” Antonucci said.

Denmark to legalize same-sex marriage

Denmark is the latest European nation to announce plans to introduce gay marriage, with same-sex couples to be allowed to marry on Church of Denmark premises.

The Danish coalition Government’s church minister, Manu Sareen, said publicly that gay men and women will soon be able to marry when legislation is introduced early next year.

“I look forward to the moment the first homosexual couple steps out of the church. I’ll be standing out there throwing rice,” he said.

Denmark was the first country in the world to allow gay civil partnerships with legislation in 1989. Public polls suggest around 69-percent of the population supports same-sex marriage according, The Copenhagen Post reports.

The first same-sex weddings could take place as early as March, 2012 after the legislation is passed.

Olivia Newton-John at International Rome Film Festival



“A Few Best Men” – Premier date: October 28, 2011 – 7:30pm
Additional screenings: October 29th – 2:30pm; October 30th – 8pm

From the official program of the International Rome Film Festival:

“When young Englishman David (Xavier Samuel) announces he’s marrying an Aussie (Laura Brent), his wild friends give completely new meaning to the concept of ‘for better or for worse.'”

“The ultra-chaotic wedding day in the Australian outback will test the relationship of the newlyweds-to-be as well as David’s friendship with this three best men, and risk turning what should be the best day of his life into the worst. This entertaining “culture clash” between his friends and her family proves blood is thicker than water!”

“This irresistible, rowdy auteur comedy from the director of Priscilla, Queen of the Desert and the wonderful Easy Virtue, which was enthusiastically received at the Rome Festival, also features the comeback of the legendary Olivia Newton-John.”

Harvey Fierstein on Obama’s accomplishments

“Obama announced the end of American troops in Iraq and NO ONE IS TALKING ABOUT IT? Hello? What does that man have to do to get some credit from people?”

“He ended DON’T ASK…, he’s fighting DOMA, he’s extended marriage benefits to Fed employees, he’s given us a healthcare system we can build on, he saved us from a full blown Depression, he killed Ben Laden and a few other nasty types, and now he’s ending Bush’s idiot war in Iraq. And he’s done it all pretty quietly while fighting back challenges to his every word from the GOP which got us into all these messes in the first place. PEOPLE – A LITTLE RESPECT?” – Harvey Fierstein on Facebook

Herman Cain Backs Constitutional Ban On Gay Marriage

Herman Cain has backtracked on his position on a constitutional amendment banning gay marriage.

As early as last week, Cain said that he opposed such an amendment.

Speaking on NBC’s Meet the Press, Cain told host David Gregory that if elected president he “wouldn’t seek a constitutional ban on same-sex marriage, but I am pro traditional marriage.”

The former CEO of Godfather’s Pizza also stated his opposition to such an amendment during an earlier New Hampshire GOP debate.

Cain’s stance on the issue has previously infuriated the National Organization for Marriage (NOM), the nation’s most vociferous opponent of gay marriage, whose anti-gay marriage pledge failed to win Cain’s endorsement.

But in a videotaped interview with the Christian Broadcasting Network’s (CBS) David Brody after Cain appeared Saturday at the Iowa Faith and Freedom’s annual banquet, Cain said he had changed his position.

“[In your Faith and Freedom speech] you mentioned marriage as well so you’re also, just so I understand, you’re for a constitutional marriage amendment as well?” Brody asked.

“I think marriage should be protected at the federal level also,” Cain responded. “I used to believe that it could be just handled by the states but there’s a movement going on to basically take the teeth out of the 1996 Defense of Marriage Act and that could cause an unraveling, so we do need some protection at the federal level because of that and so yes I would support legislation that would say that it’s between a man and a woman.”
(via OnTopMagazine)

Rough road for Missouri tornado hero

Staff Sgt. Mike Byers of the National Guard shares
a moment with hero Mark Lindquist

Mark Lindquist is a hero – an underpaid social worker who nearly gave his life trying to save three developmentally disabled adults from the Joplin tornado. Both houses of the Missouri legislature honored Lindquist, the Senate resolution calling him “a true hero and inspiration to others.”

The tornado’s 200 mph winds tossed Lindquist nearly a block, broke every rib, obliterated his shoulder, knocked out most of his teeth and put him in a coma for about two months.

Lindquist’s medical expenses exceed $2.5 million, and the bills keep coming. He requires 11 daily prescriptions and will need more surgery.

He assumed workers’ compensation would cover his bills, but his claim was denied “based on the fact that there was no greater risk than the general public at the time you were involved in the Joplin tornado,” according to a letter to Lindquist from Accident Fund Insurance Company of America, his company’s workers’ comp provider.

“I think they need to take another look at the circumstances and revisit the claim,” state Rep. Bill Lant, R-Joplin, said. “What he did went beyond heroics.”

On the evening of May 22 Lindquist made his way to the group home occupied by Mark Farmer, Rick Fox and Tripp Miller, three middle-aged men with Down syndrome. Soon after he arrived, a tornado siren began to blare.

Because there was no basement or shelter and the residents moved too slowly to relocate, Lindquist placed mattresses over the men for protection, then climbed atop the mattresses for added weight.

The EF-5 tornado was among the nation’s worst ever. It destroyed more than 7,000 homes, including the group home, and killed 162 people.

Among the dead were Farmer, Fox and Miller, a fact that still haunts Lindquist.  “I loved them almost as much as I love my own kid,” he said.

After the storm, rescuers found Lindquist buried in rubble, impaled by a piece of metal. Large chunks of flesh were torn off. Bones from his shoulder crumbled as they placed him on a door used as a makeshift stretcher.

Relatives contacted every hospital within 100 miles of Joplin searching for him. None of the unidentified matched Lindquist’s description.

His injuries were so severe that his slender, athletic body had become swollen and unrecognizable. He was in a coma. Finally, after three days, he was identified by tiny brown flecks in his hazel eyes.

Doctors told Baldwin that if Lindquist survived, it likely would be in a vegetative state. Even in a best-case scenario, he likely would be blind in one eye, never regain use of his right arm, and never speak or think normally, she was told.

Lindquist’s recovery amazed doctors. His right arm remains in a sling, but he has use of the hand. The eye that was temporarily blinded has full sight. He moves slowly and has short-term memory loss, but speaks well.

His sister, Linda Linquist Baldwin, said the insurance company’s decision is unfathomable because if her brother hadn’t been at work, he wouldn’t have been hurt. He also could have jumped in his van and driven away from the group home as the tornado approached.

Lindquist said that thought never crossed his mind.

“I could have abandoned them to save myself, but I would never do that,” he said.

Since word of Lindquist’s plight spread, people around Joplin have pitched in, donating a few hundred dollars. Baldwin said her brother is touched by the kindness, even if it barely pays for the prescriptions, much less the medical costs.

More at Yahoo News

Hanging at the Flamingo Resort habitat


I’ve never spent a lot if time at the Flamingo Resort in the past.

Waiting for Michael to finish an appointment I discovered the Flamingo Habitat. And there’s not just flamingos here.

The guy above is the Black-necked swan. They are apparently the fastest flying of all swans. And it seems they are either in the air or water – they only come ashore to nest as they are somewhat clumsy on land.

Of course there are lots of flamingos here though (Chilean Flamingos to be exact). They grow to be about 4 feet high but only 6 pounds in weight. Their knees – pink of course – are backwards which helps them to sleep standing on one leg.

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Bill Maher on Rick Santorum’s lost culture war

Rick Santorum is like that Japanese soldier on the island who doesn’t know the war is over, so he’s still fighting against birth control and butt sex.  Plus, Republicans are now mostly a Southern party and if there’s one thing Southerners don’t do well its lose a war and get over it.” – Bill Maher October 21, 2011

Secrets to a good marriage: Good night

So Michael comes in from his office yesterday and says we’d been invited to go out with friends last night.  Having not slept great the past couple of nights, I wasn’t really up to it since “go out” meant starting the evening at 11:30pm.

So after dinner, Michael took a disco nap, I watched some TV with the dogs.  He got up at 11pm to shower and get ready, and I headed to bed.

This morning, while he’s still sleeping from getting in at 5am, I see this tweet from him.

And everyone’s happy.

There you go.  🙂