Iowa couple denied wedding venue because GAY

Gortz Haus owner Betty Odgaard

Lee Stafford and his fiance were turned away from a Grimes, Iowa wedding venue because they are gay. Betty Odgaard, owner of Gortz Haus, the venue where they had hoped to wed, says she denied them based on religious principles. She is a Mennonite.

KCCI reports:

“Can I have my beliefs without being ostracized for that? I think I have my right too, and to stand firm my convictions and beliefs,” said Odgaard.

Stafford said he has a new location for his wedding and said rejection hurts, but he will not let it affect his wedding.

“We are going to find some people that are still going to be reluctant to embrace us. That is just going to happen,” said Stafford.

Stafford said he plans to pursue his case with the Iowa Civil Rights Commission.

(via Towleroad)

Oregon reaches one-third of petition signatures for marriage equality in only 12 days

The marriage equality kids in Oregon are NOT playing 🙂

After only 12 days of signature gathering, they are already at the one-third mark in terms of signatures needed:

According to Oregon Says I Do campaign spokeswoman Amy Ruiz, the campaign has already collected 42,000 of the 116,284 signatures needed to qualify for the November 2014 ballot.

She added that some 1,700 volunteers have collected roughly 90 percent of the signatures, with the rest coming from campaign staffers. Supporters have until next summer to collect the remaining signatures.

Using volunteers, Ruiz told The Oregonian, helps the campaign to build its organization.

If successful, the referendum would reverse the state’s 2004 voter-approved constitutional amendment limiting marriage to heterosexual couples and Oregon would make history as the first state to do so.

Marriage proposal on Project Runway

The recently married Jesse Tyler Ferguson is a guest judge on this Thursday’s Project Runway promoting his “Tie the Knot” bowties, which benefit marriage equality.

As part of the challenge, contestants must incorporate JTF’s bowties in their designs, inspiring Californian Brandon to propose to Josh, his boyfriend of 18 years.

While the episode was being filmed, the Supreme Court handed down its decisions on DOMA and Prop 8.

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First gay couple registers to marry in Uruguay

Two gay men who have been a couple for 14 years have become the first to register to marry in Uruguay, hours after a law came into force allowing same-sex marriages in the country.

Rodrigo Borda, 39, and Sergio Miranda, 45, said it was a day of much joy and emotion, but also of responsibility.

Uruguay is the second South American nation to pass a gay-marriage law.

Mr Borda and Mr Miranda said they would celebrate their wedding in September.

It would be a “very public affair”, not only because they wanted to share the moment with “all the world”, but also because they wanted “to give an example to those gay couples who may be thinking about getting married but don’t dare to”, the couple added.

Three years ago, Argentina became the first country in Latin America to allow same-sex marriages.
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Since then, Brazil’s Supreme Court overwhelmingly voted in favor of granting same-sex couples the same legal rights as married heterosexuals.

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Pennsylvania: Mayor of Braddock performs first same-sex marriage

This will probably push the marriage equality issue further into the public square.

Braddock Mayor John Fetterman performed a marriage ceremony for John Kandray and Bill Grey last night.

The couple that was married knows that neither the Pennsylvania nor the federal government may recognize their marriage, but they say one day they hope it will be recognized by both.

“Showing our commitment to each other,” Gray said, “which we’ve been at that point for a long time, just now we can prove it.”

When they heard that Montgomery County was issuing licenses to same-sex couples, they went across the state to get one. And then they heard Braddock Mayor John Fetterman was willing to marry them.

“I just think it’s time people in Pennsylvania say, Mr. Corbett, you know, tear down this law,” Fetterman said. “DOMA is a fundamentally unjust piece of legislation.”

“We pay the same taxes, we do everything the same, but we don’t have the same rights,” Kandray said.

“It felt like, you know what, let’s stand up for ourselves and do this,” he added.

So at the mayor’s home and in front of the couple’s family and friends, they exchanged rings and were married by the mayor.

Last month the ACLU filed a lawsuit seeking to overturn Pennsylvania’s ban on same-sex marriage.

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San Diego County Clerk withdraws challenge to Prop 8 repeal

San Diego County Clerk Ernest Dronenburg on Friday withdrew his petition asking the California Supreme Court to halt same-sex marriages and consider whether the Supreme Court’s Prop 8 ruling applies only to the plaintiffs involved in the case.

From the Union Tribune:

In a news release sent out Friday afternoon, Dronenburg said he canceled the petition because it covered the same ground as another petition filed earlier to the court.

The first petition was filed July 12 by Dennis Hollingsworth and others. Hollingsworth, a former state senator, has worked with ProtectMarriage.com in support of Proposition 8, which amended the state Constitution to define marriage as a union between a man and a woman.

Dronenburg said he was withdrawing his petition, which he filed July 19, to speed up the legal process that he hopes will clarify the current legal standing of Prop. 8.

Dronenburg has said he wanted county clerks to stop issuing marriage licenses to same-sex couples because it would be “cruel” if such people tied the knot and then later learned that their marriages were invalid. However, it would seem strange that a man so concerned for the “well-being” of gays and lesbians would hire attorney Charles LiMandri, a vocal supporter of Prop. 8 and head of the Freedom of Conscience Defense Fund in Rancho Santa Fe.

Coincidence? I think not.

Minnesota: Rep. Keith Ellison celebrates marriage equality with “This Land Is Your Land”

Minnesota Congressman Keith Ellison provides a little musical celebration as marriage equality comes to his state.

Ellison tells Politico:

“I mean a year ago it looked like [there might be] a constitutional amendment in the state of Minnesota barring people from marriage equality and now here we are today, not just celebrating the defeat of the anti-marriage amendment, but the success of marriage equality. I think that’s something to rejoice about.

“It was a massive effort from diverse parts of the community and it succeeded so. It means that America’s a little freer, a little fairer, a little more equal, a little more accepting of all people. I think that’s worth celebrating.”

(h/t Towleroad)

Sec. of State Kerry announces US will start granting visas to same-sex couples

U.S. Secretary of State John Kerry addresses employees at the U.S. Embassy in London, to announce that the U.S. Department of State would immediately start granting visas to same-sex couples just as it does for opposite-sex couples, after the U.S. Supreme Court overturned the Defense of Marriage Act.

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NOM’s Brian Brown is mad about New Mexico

“The battle for marriage as God designed has come to The Land of Enchantment; and it’s your turn to stand in the breach. Every person who believes marriage to be the union of one man and one woman needs to contact Governor Martinez today, urging her and her administration to give their full support to the defense of marriage.

“As you are probably aware, two men applied for a marriage license in Santa Fe County. A brave County Clerk refused to issue the license because she knew, as you do, that New Mexico’s definition of marriage is the union of one man and one woman. As a result, these men have filed a lawsuit seeking to have New Mexico give legal recognition to same sex marriage. And yesterday the Santa Fe Commission voted to support this suit!

“We need the Governor to intervene because the State’s Attorney General is refusing to do so. In fact, the Attorney General has betrayed his oath of office by urging the Court to overturn New Mexico’s recognition of traditional marriage and legalize same-sex marriage.” – Hate group leader Brian Brown, calling on supporters to protest the evil gays in New Mexico.

New Mexico currently has no law legalizing or outlawing marriage equality.