Newark Star-Ledger to Gov. Christie on marriage equality – Be on the right side of history by getting out of the way

Gov. Chris Christie of New Jersey

Fantastic op-ed from the editorial board of the Newark Star-Ledger today:

Christie’s words — leave it to voters, not judges or politicians — portray a man who wants history to take its own course, without meddling from the government. His actions, on the other hand, have stonewalled New Jersey’s march toward equality at every turn. Christie could borrow a page from President Obama, who allowed his stance on same-sex marriage to evolve and ultimately dropped the federal government’s defense of the doomed Defense of Marriage Act. Or from Christie’s own party, Sen. Rob Portman of Ohio, who reversed course on same-sex marriage after learning his son is gay.

Christie says New Jersey’s best path toward a marriage equality decision is to hold a referendum. That gives Christie his political out — and leaves the basic rights of gay people subject to the whims of a political campaign. The civil liberties of a minority shouldn’t be subject to majority rule. The popular consensus on same-sex marriage is inevitable. Christie can position himself on the right side of history, in this case, simply by getting out of its way.

(h/t JMG)

Poll: Growing minority of conservatives support marriage equality

Pew Research Center has a new poll that shows over the past decade a growing minority of conservatives are starting to support marriage equality.

Nearly three in ten of Republicans (29%) and political conservatives (30%) are gay marriage supporters.

Twelve years ago,  21% of Republicans and 18% of conservatives expressed this view.

‘Adults under age 30 who say they are Republican or lean Republican are much more supportive of same-sex marriage (54%) than Republicans 65 and older (18%),’ the study said.

(via Gay Star News)

BREAKING: New Jersey Supreme Court to hear marriage equality case

All of a sudden, marriage equality is heading to the New Jersey state Supreme Court.

From the AP:

The state’s highest court on Friday agreed to hear a case on whether gay marriage should be legal and whether same-sex weddings can be performed while it decides.

A lower-court judge ruled last month that the state must legalize same-sex marriage starting Oct. 21, but Gov. Chris Christie’s administration said in a court filing Friday that a single judge should not be able to force New Jersey to do so.

The argument was included in a brief the state submitted in support of its emergency appeal after a state judge refused to delay her order that New Jersey legalize same-sex marriage as of Oct. 21.

“To overhaul such an ancient social institution prematurely, precipitously, or in a manner ultimately deemed unnecessary would injure not only the public interest, but the State that represents this interest,” the state attorney general’s office said in its brief.

The state Supreme Court accepted the case Friday, skipping the normal course of letting an appeals court hear it first. Oral arguments were scheduled for January.

The issue at hand is that the state Supreme Court ruled years ago that New Jersey had to offer at least “equal” rights regarding marital status to LGBT couples. New Jersey passed civil unions as a compromise, but now with DOMA gone civil unions are now not “equal” to marriage because the Federal government doesn’t recognize civil unions as “marriage.”

A few steps will happen here:

1. The plaintiffs – the couples suing New Jersey – have until Tuesday to respond through their lawyers.
2. The NJ Supreme Court may place a stay on the October 21st date to begin marriage equality. Or they may not. We shall see.
3. The Supreme Court would then hear oral arguments on the full case beginning January 6 or 7.

Stay tuned.

New Jersey judge denies Gov. Christie’s request to delay same-sex marriage on October 21st

From the Associated Press:

A New Jersey judge has denied a request from Gov. Chris Christie’s administration to delay the start of gay marriage in the state until after a legal appeal is final.

“Granting a stay would simply allow the state to continue to violate the equal protection rights of New Jersey same-sex couples, which can hardly be considered a public interest,” Judge Mary Jacobson wrote.

The ruling Thursday from Judge Mary Jacobson moves the state a step closer to start recognizing same-sex nuptials on Oct. 21. That’s the day Jacobson had said in a previous ruling that the marriages had to be allowed.

But Christie’s administration is expected to appeal the denial to a higher court. The administration has already asked the state Supreme Court to reverse Jacobson’s earlier ruling that the state has to allow gay couples to get married.

New Jersey voter confronts Gov. Christie on marriage equality

On a recent campaign stop at the Edison Diner in New Jersey, one of the voters in attendance, Bert Bueno, brought up the issue of marriage equality and asked why Gov. Christie opposed the legislation:

“How come you’re in opposition?” Bueno, a straight woman, asked the Republican leader.

“Listen: Lots of different people have different views on this,” Christie responded. “I think marriage should be between a man and a woman. … My view is: If you want to change it, put it on the ballot. Let everybody decide. It shouldn’t be decided by courts. It shouldn’t be decided by politicians in Trenton. It should be decided by everybody. If the majority of the people of New Jersey want same-sex marriage, I’ll enforce the law.”

In a four-minute exchange, Christie claimed that he has gay friends and relatives, and he contested Bueno’s stance that marriage equality is “a human rights issue.”

“The fact is: We’ve been very supportive of a lot of other things, like banning gay conversion therapy,” said Christie, who signed a bill last month that banned use of the discredited practice on minors. “This is an issue where we have an honest difference of opinion. OK, so you put it on the ballot — you vote your way, I vote my way. And whoever gets the most votes wins.”

A recent poll found that 62% of registered New Jersey voters support the September 27 decision of Superior Court judge Mary Jacobson to legalize same-sex marriage, which would go into effect October 21, barring any delays or appeals on the Governor’s behalf.

(via Advocate)

New Jersey: Sixty-two percent of NJ voters support legalizing marriage equality

Nearly two-thirds of registered voters in New Jersey approve of a decision by a Superior Court judge to legalize same-sex marriage in the state, according to a Fairleigh Dickinson University PublicMind poll released today.

The poll found that of the 702 registered voters questioned, 62 percent agreed with Superior Court Judge Mary Jacobson’s Sept. 27 decision to allow same-sex couples to get married on the ground that the current state law was a violation of a recent U.S. Supreme Court ruling.

More at NJ.com

T.R. Knight marries longtime boyfriend in quiet ceremony in NYC

T.R. Knignt with new husband Patrick. The couple wed in NYC this past weekend after three years of dating.

US Weekly is reporting that T.R. Knight is officially off the market!

The former Dr. O’Malley married his boyfriend of three years, Patrick, in a quiet ceremony in New York City over the weekend!  And Katherine Heigl was there

The pair said “I do” on Friday, Oct. 4 in an intimate ceremony in front of family and friends.

“It [was] very small and quiet,” an insider revealed to US Weekly. Knight’s former ABC costars and  friends Katherine Heigl and Kate Walsh flew in for the ceremony, the source says.

Congrats to the happy couple!

Katherine Heigl attended T.R. Knight's wedding ceremony in NYC this past weekend

Marriage News Watch – October 10, 2013

Anti-gay politicians are pushing back against recent high-profile victories for equality, but they’re just delaying the inevitable.

Lawsuits progress in some more conservative states.

Plus more good news in state and national surveys:

• 57% of Nevadans support repeal of same-sex marriage ban
• 55% of Americans support marriage equality

It’s been three and a half years since anti-marriage equality folks saw any poll with their side over 50%.

The trend is clear, kids.

Forward.

Bridegroom to premiere on OWN Network

After “It Could Happen to You,” a YouTube video made by Shane Bitney Crone in response to the accidental death of his boyfriend Tom Bridegroom became a viral sensation (more than 4.1 million views), the story was turned into an award winning film.

On October 27, Bridegroom, a crowd-funded documentary directed by Linda Bloodworth Thomason which broke Kickstarter records , will have its TV premiere on Oprah’s OWN network. It showed earlier this year at the Tribeca Film Festival winning the Audience Award for Best Documentary.

Bridgeroom will be part of a special night of programming on OWN about being gay in America that will include an Oprah’s Next Chapter interview segment with Wanda Sykes, Jesse Tyler Ferguson and Scandal’s Dan Bucatinsky.

(via Towleroad)