Maine legislators send marriage equality initiative to the voters; polls show likely to pass

The Maine House of Representatives unanimously voted this morning to send an initiative on marriage equality directly to voters. House Speaker Robert Nutting, R-Oakland, recognized Minority Leader Emily Cain, D-Orono, to make the motion. Cain is a supporter of gay-marriage.

“We just think this should be decided by the voters,” said Cain’s spokeswoman Jodi Quintero. “We would like to see this citizen initiative succeed.”

A recent poll from PPP shows that Maine voters are likely to approve it:

It looks like Maine voters will reverse their 2009 decision and legalize gay marriage in the state this fall. 54% think that gay marriage should be legal to only 41% who think it should be illegal. And when we asked about the issue using the exact language voters will see on the ballot this fall, they say they’re inclined to support the referendum by a 47-32 margin.

Republicans’ opinions are pretty much the same as they were in 2009. But Democrats’ support for gay marriage has increased slightly, from 71% to 78%. And more importantly independents have gone from voting against gay marriage 52/46 three years ago to now supporting it by a 57/36 margin.

Denmark may pass marriage equality this summer

Danish Prime Minister Helle Thorning-Schmidt on Tuesday said the government will introduce draft legislation this week to legalize same-sex marriages later this year, a move which had been expected for years.

ut Thorning said the Danish government will submit a draft legislation on Wednesday which will allow same-sex couples to get married at both City Hall and the Church of Denmark if they find a priest who is willing to perform the wedding. Although some church leaders have spoken out against same-sex marriage, previous surveys have suggested that as many as 70 percent of priests are willing to marry same-sex couples.

The Danish Government is ready with the Law Proposal, which will take effect in June 2012. It is important step for our society, which recognizes the individual’s differences and the individual’s equality within the society, regardless of who you are, and regardless of who do you love, says PM Thorning. She calls the Law Proposal a completely natural and the right step in the moden Denmark. It will be up to individual priest though to decide, whether they would want to bless the homosexual couples in the church, the PM informs.

In 1989 Denmark was the world’s first nation to offer federal domestic partnership recognition.

Read more here.

Delta Airlines supports GLAAD

From GLAAD: Millions of travelers from all across the globe will learn about the need for vital LGBT-inclusive workplace protections with the release of a new full-page ad appearing in this month’s issue of ‘Delta Sky Magazine.’

The ad reads in part: “Today, in 29 states, a person can be fired from their job simply for being lesbian, gay or bisexual. In 34 states, a person can be fired from their job simply for being transgender.”

Readers are directed to glaad.org to learn more about how they can support the LGBT community.

Delta Sky is the world’s most-read onboard magazine with a circulation of over 5 million and introduces readers to the people, places and subjects that define our ever-evolving world. The ad, which was created by GLAAD, also commends Delta for its ongoing commitment to equality.

Delta Air Lines was designated as one of HRC’s ‘Best Places to Work’ for LGBT employees in 2011, and continues to earn near-perfect scores on HRC’s Corporate Equality Index.

Delta Air Lines is also the Local Presenting Partner of the GLAAD Media Awards in New York, as well as the GLAAD Media Awards in Los Angeles.

Adele’s “Someone Like You” told through the story of Brokeback Mountain

So, when I came across this I expected some cute editing and double entendres.

I wasn’t prepared for how well done this would be. I loved the beauty and simplicity of the movie Brokeback Mountain and the work done by all the actors in the movie. Paired with the open, raw honesty of Adele’s hit song “Someone Like You” is a great fit. Kudos the the editor, Gomnitus.

Brokeback Mountain won the Golden Lion at the Venice Film Festival and was honored with Best Picture and Best Director accolades from the British Academy of Film and Television Arts, Golden Globe Awards, Producers Guild of America, Critics Choice Awards, and Independent Spirit Awards among many other organizations and festivals.

Interview: Singer/Songwriter Tom Goss “Lost Songs and Underdogs”

Singer/songwriter Tom Goss

I’ve been a fan of singer/songwriter Tom Goss since the release of his first CD “Naked Without.” Since then this guitar-toting troubadour wielding heartfelt lyrics, hooky melodies and quirky charm has earned a dedicated national following.

A top-shelf music artist in the LGBT world, Tom has performed across the country in hundreds of concert appearances ranging from Pride festivals to smaller, more intimate performances. He has a big following due not only to his big pop songs like “It’s All Over” and “Come Around” but his ballads like “Lover” as well.

Tom is an unabashed romantic, known for his songs about love (many inspired by his husband Mike, whom he married in October 2010) and longing.

Tom is committed politically as well, having released songs and videos in support of marriage equality and the repeal of “don’t ask, don’t tell.”

I recently had the opportunity to interview him with my radio show co-host Candi for “The Candi & Randy Show.”  Here’s an excerpt from the interview:

How would you say this album is different from your earlier CDs?

Yeah – It’s very intimate. A lot of these songs I started a long time ago, and they just never made it to a CD before because they didn’t fit those projects. It’s very much a departure for me.

I invested in some recording equipment this summer, and was tooling around with it all – an hour here, an hour there. But I realized it wasn’t getting done. A friend of mine has a cabin in the middle of the woods, so I disappeared into the woods for a while. No telephones, no computers. Just super intense sessions. It was really cool.

It was funny too because when it gets dark, it gets DARK. And I’m the only one for miles. Unless there happens to be, like, a psycho killer. So I covered up all the windows and I told myself it was for sound purposes, but it was really so I wouldn’t see like “the man with the bloody meat hook standing outside the window.” I figure if someone is going to kick in the door with a shotgun I can react to the situation as opposed to seeing them approach and having this dramatic fear… I’m a big fan of naiveté and ignorance (laughs).

Let’s talk about the song “I Do” on the new CD. You got married fairly recently – was this written around the time of the wedding?

Yeah, I got married in the fall of 2010 and that was I song I wrote for our wedding. I’ve written a lot of songs for Mike in the past and in preparing for the wedding I thought about putting together a CD collection of some of those songs as gifts to the people who attended the wedding, so that’s what I did.

But in writing this song I got to thinking about love songs and how ridiculous they can be sometimes in the sense where they only focus on the positives and disregard all the negatives. So I wrote a song about Mike and all the things he does that drive me up the wall. And in the end it turned into one of those “everything’s happy, squeaky clean” love songs because as much as I wrote about the things that annoy me, all those things I’m really in love with as well.

Didn’t you get married on a miniature golf course?

Yeah we got married on a mini-golf course. It was amazing. And then for our honeymoon we went to a place out in Bisbee, Arizona called Shady Dell where you can stay in these vintage trailer homes. It’s like a hotel but with trailers. It was like stepping back in time. It was very cool and fun.

The song “The Dawn Of Man” on the new CD has a sense of timeless wisdom, and even seems to have a bit of Gregorian chant in the bridge. Can you talk about where the song comes from for you?

The album has a lot of dark and sad stuff on it. And I wanted to end on a note that talks about truth and rebirth which is why “The Dawn Of Man” comes at the end of the album.

When I wrote it I was thinking a lot about the allegory of the cave by Plato. In the allegory the people are living in a cave and all they know are their shadows on the wall. It’s so dark they don’t even see each other. So they think that “the world” is the shadows on the wall. But if someone came to you and said “take my hand – there’s something that I want to show you” and you stepped out into the light and saw that there was an entire world there, then you would be awakened to all these new truths. It wouldn’t mean that the truths that you knew before weren’t true – it would just mean that they were changed.

And so I got to thinking about what we believe to be true and how it changes throughout our lives. It doesn’t mean that we were wrong before; we just didn’t have all the information that we needed. Even now I hope that in 10 years I’ll look back and think I’ve become more right. The song is about walking out into the world and seeing the good and the bad, and really not passing judgement on it – just enjoying the beauty of it.

It sounds like the process of creating this album was different this time around. Did you learn something new during the process?

I think that in some ways I’m a bad artist because I tend to not struggle with my art. I tend to write a song then move beyond it. And then I pull really great people around me to help make the songs what they need to be.

But in many ways that takes responsibility off me. And so, for this record I really wanted to have all the responsibility and see what would happen if every single note came from my finger tips. And there are things on that album – including that “gregorian chant” section – that, before I went into that cabin in the woods, I would have told you I couldn’t do. Even through the recording of that piece (‘The Dawn of Man’), it sounded like shit. It wasn’t that it was bad. It was that it wasn’t mixed properly. So I had to keep telling myself through the whole thing “follow this through and it’s going to sound amazing.”

And that’s what I really value most about this record – that it taught me to be confident in my ideas and what I have to do and what I want to do in my vision. It taught me that I CAN do it. Of course when I get back together with my collaborators for my next big pop record it’s going to be that much better because I have that confidence now.

How about some “get to know Tom” questions? What is your idea of a romantic evening?

(Laughs) I don’t know. I guess… I’m just really happy when I’m with Mike. That may sound silly, but we spend so much time apart; so for me the idea of being at home, eating dinner together, laying in bed together… that’s really romantic to me.

If you could have dinner with anyone anywhere, who would it be and where?

I really don’t know. Would it be a philosopher, or a religious figure or an artist? There are so many people I’d want to talk to and now you’re telling me I have to choose a place too (laughing)???

I think the really great thing about what I do is that I meet so many people. The music that I play and the way I perform – I work really hard to be an open book, be honest about who I am, what I do, who I love and what I’m passionate about. And I feel like as a result people do the same to me. So we kind of meet each other where we’re at.

And to me that’s my favorite thing to do. So I’d really like to meet everybody – where they’re at, when they’re there and hopefully be on the journey of life with them.

To listen to the entire interview, click here.

Tom’s latest CD, Lost Songs and Underdogs, will be released April 3rd.
However it is available for purchase and instant download on his website right now – www.tomgossmusic.net

Pennsylvania: proposed bill to amend state constitution outlawing marriage equality

From Equality Pennsylvania: A vote on House Bill (HB) 1434 is scheduled for TUESDAY, MARCH 13 in the House State Government Committee. Now is the time to let your voice be heard. HB 1434, proposed by Rep. Daryl Metcalfe, would not only amend the Pennsylvania Constitution to define marriage as a legal union between one man and one woman, it would invalidate any other type of legal union or one substantially equivalent. That means any discussion of civil unions or domestic partnerships would forever be off the table for consideration.

Passage of this legislation will also forcefully terminate benefits currently provided to thousands of employees in municipalities or state owned schools or facilities that offer domestic partnership benefits.

Pennsylvania residents – contact your legislators by clicking here.

Get more info on how you can make your opinion known by visiting Equality Pennsylvania.

UPDATE: The Pennsylvania legislature has put on hold discussion of a proposed bill that would bar in the state Constitution recognition of same-sex marriage, according to the blog PoliticsPA.com.

Billboard Album Chart for week of March 12, 2012

For the week of March 12th according to Nielsen SoundScan

1. Adele – 21

2. Whitney Houston – Greatest Hits

3. WZRD – WZRD

4. Various – NOW 41

5. Various – Soundtrack to The Bodyguard

6. Tyga – Careless World

7. Adele – 19

8. Drake – Take Care

9. Rihanna – Talk That Talk

10. Whitney Houston – Whitney Houston