John Boehner, John McCain not changing position on marriage equality

Although Ohio Sen. Rob Portman made public his “evolution” on marriage equality last week, many of the GOP stalwarts are sticking to their guns on the issue.

House Speaker John Boehner, appearing yesterday on ABC’s This Week: “Rob [Portman] is a great friend and a long-time ally. And I appreciate that he’s decided to change his views on this.I believe that marriage is the union of one man and one woman. It’s what I grew up with. It’s what I believe. It’s what my church teaches me. And I can’t imagine that position would ever change.”

Sen. John McCain agrees: “I respect anyone else’s decision and we all learn in life and grow and mature. I have changed my position on other issues in my life, but on this one, I had not contemplated changing my position.”

First same-sex wedding under Indian tribal law in Michigan

Tim LaCroix (L) and Gene Barfield (R) exchange marriage vows as
Dexter McNamara officiates

How wonderful is this?

The head of an American Indian tribe in Michigan signed a law approving same-sex marriage on Friday, then immediately wed a gay couple who had been together for 30 years.

From NBC News:

Dexter McNamara, chairman of the 4,600-member Little Traverse Bay Bands of Odawa Indians in northern Michigan, wed Tim LaCroix, 53, and Gene Barfield, 60, of Boyne City. After McNamara read the couple’s vows and led the ceremony in English, a member of the tribe followed and conducted a traditional tribal ceremony in their language before dozens of wellwishers.

“I’m proud of my tribe for doing this and I love my husband,” LaCroix said, with Barfield, who is not a tribe member, chiming in:”How could the world be better? … I’m just full of joy and happiness and I love my husband.”

I believe this makes for the very first same-sex wedding in Michigan.

Congratulations to the newlyweds AND to the Little Traverse Bay Bands of Odawa Indians.

NOM’s Brian Brown: Prop 8 challenge “biggest strategic mistake” for gay rights

SiriusXM’s Michelangelo Signorile interviews Brian Brown of the anti-gay hate group National Organization for Marriage:

From the 7:30 mark: “We are going to win at the Supreme Court,” he said. “It will be shown to be the biggest strategic mistake the supporters of same-sex marriage ever have made [to challenge Prop 8]. And the reality is that all of them knew this. All of the major [gay] groups knew this. They knew this was the wrong time. We’re going to find that out. Justice Kennedy is not going to launch another culture war like Roe. He’s not going to have Supreme Court interject and short circuit the Democratic process.”

Mind you, Brown was speaking here before the news broke that John Eastman, NOM’s national board chair, said that Supreme Court Justice John Roberts had chosen the “second best option” by adopting children.  Not exactly how to win friends and influence people, I’d say.

Also, after Brown’s statements GOP Sen. Rob Portman of Ohio reversed his position and came out for marriage equality.

All that said, I’m not sure how unified all these GOP “standard bearers” are in their positions on the issue.

Sen. Rob Portman now supports marriage equality

 

Ohio Sen. Rob Portman has become the first sitting GOP senator to announce his support for marriage equality:

“I’m announcing today a change of heart on an issue a lot of people feel strongly about. It has to do with gay couples’ opportunity to marry. During my career in the House and also the last few years in the Senate I’ve taken a position against gay marriage rooted in part in my faith and my faith tradition..
“I had a very personal experience which is my son came to Jane, my wife and I, told us he was gay and that it was not a choice, that’s just part of who he is and that he had been that way since he could remember.”

From Sen. Portman’s op-ed for the Columbus Dispatch: 

“The process of citizens persuading fellow citizens is how consensus is built and enduring change is forged. That’s why I believe change should come about through the democratic process in the states.  Judicial intervention from Washington would circumvent that process as it’s moving in the direction of recognizing marriage for same-sex couples. An expansive court ruling would run the risk of deepening divisions rather than resolving them.

“I’ve thought a great deal about this issue, and like millions of Americans in recent years, I’ve changed my mind on the question of marriage for same-sex couples. As we strive as a nation to form a more perfect union, I believe all of our sons and daughters ought to have the same opportunity to experience the joy and stability of marriage.”

Reactions from across the political spectrum:  

Log Cabin Republicans: “If there was any doubt that the conservative logjam on the issue of civil marriage for committed gay and lesbian couples has broken, Senator Portman’s support for the freedom to marry has erased it. Senator Portman’s evolution on this issue highlights how personal it is for Americans — whether they’re the Junior Senator from Ohio or your next-door neighbor, all Americans have a gay friend, colleague or family member, and understand them to be as deserving as their straight counterparts of the inalienable rights of life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness that are the promise of the United States.”

 Human Rights Campaign: “Like countless dads across the country, Senator Portman has made the basic and courageous choice to put parenting before politics. When it comes to marriage equality, all Americans are on the same journey toward recognizing our common humanity. But while 8 in 10 Americans know a gay or lesbian person, it still takes unique courage to speak out publicly for equality. We are very grateful to Senator Portman for his virtuous stand in support of this civil rights cause.”  

Freedom to Marry Ohio: “The honorable U.S. Sen. Portman is the first Republican member of the United States Senate to endorse the freedom to marry, but we believe he will not be the last. We are moved by the love and support U.S. Sen. Portman and his wife are showing their son. We appreciate the fact that the Senator wants his son to be able to marry and form a family to find the same happiness and security as his parents. Each day you can feel the momentum building toward ending marriage discrimination in Ohio. We are going to work even harder with our wonderful volunteers across the state to collect the signatures needed to put this amendment before voters.”

Poll: 64% of Americans believe marriage equality is inevitable

A new poll from LifeWay Research – a Christian polling firm connected to the Southern Baptist Convention – shows 58 percent of American adults agree same-sex marriage is a civil rights issue and 64 percent believe it is inevitable same-sex marriage will become legal throughout the United States.

Other findings in the poll:

• 63% believe clergy should be allowed to refuse to officiate over same-sex weddings. (That percentage jumps to 74% for people who identify as “Born Again, evangelical, or fundamentalist Christian”

• 58% believe photographers should be able to reject gay couples (in contrast, 72% of fundamentalists do).

• 40% believe rental halls should be able to refuse to book same-sex weddings (compared to the 57% of fundamentalists who feel that way).

• 20% believe landlords should be able to reject gay tenants and 14% said employers should be able to discriminate against homosexuals.

Check out more number crunching at LifeWay.com

Sen. Marco Rubio: Just because I think someone deserves 2nd class rights does not make me a bigot

Speaking at CPAC this afternoon, Sen. Marco Rubio complained that the people he would deny rights to (same-sex marriage rights, pro-choice rights) don’t respect him:

“I respect people who disagree with me on certain things, but that means they have to respect me too. Just because I believe states should have the right to define marriage in a traditional way does not make me a bigot. Just because we believe that life, all human life, all life, all human life is worthy of protection in every stage of its development doesn’t make you a chauvinist. In fact, the people who are actually close minded in American politics are people who love to preach about the certainty of science in regard to our climate, but ignore the absolute fact that life begins at conception.”

Minnesota: Mother, father and son give emotional testimony for marriage equality

Jacob Reitan, an activist who helped found the Soulforce Equality Ride, and his parents Randi and Philip, offered testimony at the Minnesota marriage equality hearings yesterday, after which both the Senate and House bills advanced to their respective floors for upcoming consideration.

I don’t know why but when the father’s voice breaks as he begins speaking, so did my heart.

What great parents. Jacob must be very proud.

(via Towleroad)