Mormon Dad Gets Choked Up That His Son Doesn’t Hate Gays Enough

Quin Monson, a professor at Brigham Young University, a former scout and father of a current Boy Scout, spoke to NPR radio recently about the Boy Scouts of America’s recent decision to lift the ban on gay scout leaders.

“The (Mormon) church took the Boy Scout program and decided its values and mission aligned closely enough with that of the church’s program for young men that they just wholesale adopted it,” Monson said. “Basically, if you are a young Mormon male, you join the Boy Scouts.”

Bu the new policy by the BSA doesn’t sit well with Monson even if he can’t articulate what exactly bothers him about it.

“The BSA statement allows for leaders who are openly gay and what that means in practice is, I don’t think, exactly clear. But I think that it very well could conflict with the church’s own policy which is, ‘You can identify as gay and be an active, faithful member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints.’ The problem is acting on that same-sex attraction, so there’s a distinction between actions and orientation.”

Monson actually sounds despondent and chokes up when he explains that his son just doesn’t see the problem with allowing gay scout leaders. Isn’t that supposed to be a good thing? When children don’t embrace the biases and bigotry that’s come before them?

Manson explained how a chat with his son went regarding having openly gay scout leaders went something like this:

“He’s a pretty deep thinker, and a thoughtful kid, but his reaction was, ‘Well, I don’t see why it matters, dad. Why is this such a big deal?'” Monson explained.

“That’s the hard part about all of this is that it impacts a group of young men who don’t necessarily understand why,” Monson said, getting choked up.

You can listen below. The “emotional” moment comes at around the 3:20 mark.

Marco Rubio: Being Gay Is Not A Choice

Newly minted 2016 GOP presidential hopeful Sen. Marco Rubio said that even though he didn’t think being gay was a choice, he didn’t believe courts should be deciding the issue of same-sex marriage.

“I also don’t believe that your sexual preferences are a choice for the vast and enormous majority of people,” he said. “In fact, the bottom line is I believe sexual preference is something that people are born with.”

Last week, Rubio also said that he would attend a gay wedding of a loved one, even if he disagreed with the “choice” that loved one had made.

“I’m not going to hurt them simply because I disagree with a choice they’ve made or because I disagree with a decision they’ve made, or whatever it may be,” Rubio said. “Ultimately, if someone that you care for and is part of your family has decided to move in one direction or another or feels that way because of who they love, you respect that because you love them.”

In the past, Rubio has distinguished between opposing same-sex marriage and being anti-gay.

“Supporting the definition of marriage as one man and one woman is not anti-gay. It is pro-traditional marriage,” Rubio said last year.

Marco Rubio: I Would Attend A Gay Wedding

Speaking on Jorge Ramos’ Fusion show, Sen. Marco Rubio (R-FL) says he would attend a gay wedding of someone he loved, but goes on to call being gay “a choice.”

Via Mediaite:

“If someone in your family or your office that happens to be gay and they invite you to their wedding, would you go?” Ramos asked the senator.

“If there’s somebody that I love that’s in my life, I don’t necessarily have to agree with their decisions or the decisions they’ve made to continue to love them and participate in important events,” Rubio said. He compared it to attending “second marriages,” which are not strictly allowed the Catholic faith.

“If it’s somebody in my life that I care for, of course I would,” Rubio reiterated on the question of attending gay weddings. “I’m not going to hurt them simply because I disagree with a choice they’ve made or because I disagree with a decision they’ve made, or whatever it may be.”

“Ultimately, if someone that you care for and is part of your family has decided to move in one direction or another or feels that way because of who they love, you respect that because you love them,” he concluded. Again, he compared the union of a same-sex couple to the divorce of a straight one. “If someone gets divorced, I’m not going to stop loving them,” he said.

U.S. Surgeon General: “Being Gay Is Not A Disorder”

Bravo to Surgeon General Vivek Murthy, speaking today on a conference call about White House support for bans on “ex-gay” torture:

“Being gay is not a disorder. Being transgender is not a malady that requires a cure.

“Had I been Leelah Alcorn’s physician, I would have told her exactly that.

“And that’s the message I want other doctors, nurses, health professionals, and public health leaders to help get out to parents and children who may be confronting these issues.”

(h/t JoeMyGod)

Troy Aikman: Choosing To Be Gay “Is Not My Lifestyle”

Former Dallas Cowboys quarterback Troy Aikman, who dodged gay rumors in the 1990s, has finally addressed the allegations and explained that if people “choose” to be gay, that’s their business, but it’s not a “choice” he makes.

The 48 year old broadcaster had this to say to Sports Illustrated:

I’m upset about it because it was made up and there was nothing accurate about anything that was insinuated. And he did it, as he does everything, just for attention. I am probably more upset because I probably should have responded to it at the time it was going on.

The advice to me was “Hey, just don’t address it. It’s not worth it. It doesn’t make any sense. It’s ridiculous. All it’s going to do is have people continue to talk about his book. So I didn’t.

But I probably could have responded differently and maybe that would have changed things. Maybe it wouldn’t have. But it is ridiculous, and, yeah, it bothers me.

If that is a lifestyle people choose, so be it. It doesn’t affect me one way or another. But it is not my lifestyle.

So, I’m guessing that means he’s “choosing” to be straight, but COULD be gay if he wanted…?